Most of the above.
In hind sight, I realize that each one of these is a deal breaker. But I learn the hard way. Oh well.
And:
She screams "RAPE!" at the top of her lungs in a department store when you won't buy her the $400 sweater she HAS to have.
She says her ex-boyfriends raped her.
She kicks your dog.
Runs over your pet rat.
Then rams you with her car.
Tries to run over elderly neighbor with car.
Pees on your chair.
Accuses your friend of drugging her and raping her. As you can imagine, this causes problems for the friend.
Soon after this, laughs at the news that your friend (his name was Dusty) killed himself. Then makes a joke: "Dusty's taking a dirt nap. HAHAHAH," she shrieks hysterically.
Then she says:" And when I get through with you, you'll be taking a dirt nap with Dusty." "HAAHAHAHa!" she cackles gleefully at that thought.
Cooks you stew, and after eating about half a bowl, you find a tampon in it.
Puts Nair in your shampoo bottle.
Sticks a wine bottle up her butt.
Then, breaks wine bottle over your head. I've still got a divot-like scar in the side of my head.
Then beats her mom with a lamp when mom tries to intervene.
Then hides in her dealer's apartment across the street because by now, the neighbors have called the cops.
Once in jail, calls you and says you have to get her out or you'll "get what's coming to you."
Still in jail, threatens suicide and goes to psych ward.
Cuts holes in your underwear.
Drugs and kidnaps you.
Won't let you break up with her. Ever.
Claims she just gave birth to your baby and shows you a tupperware bowl that she keeps in her refrigerator. The bowl has a bloody mess in it.
Follows you around town and figures out who you're now seeing and then threatens them.
Keys your new girl friends car.
Spray paints your new girlfriends front door.
Poops in your new girlfriends front yard.
Calls your boss, co-workers, relatives, ex-girlfriends, ex-girlfriends' mothers, etc. and tells them she's a battered woman.
Gets you fired.
There's more. I'm writing a blog about it. It's titled "Misogyny."