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Prostatitis. Anyone else got this ?

Darksidesam

Darksidesam

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Just wondered how anyone else deals with the pain involved when having sex, i mean.
I was with someone for a few years, i enjoyed sex but it was always that afterpain i didnt enjoy so it kind of put me off having sex. Thought that it was normal to have pain after sex, and sometimes on ejaculation?

Stupid doctor told me 3 years ago, No no your too young to have any problems with your prostate,
But then i read up on it, got a second opinion on it this week and suggested it may be prostatitis, from my hours of research and comparing symptoms. After a prostate examination he said i was right i had something wrong with my prostate.

Its frustrating, ive not actually had sex in about a year and a half now too, kinda getting me down because i avoid sex. Noone wants a sexless relationship either or if someone isnt giving out enough they are likely to look elsewhere. . . . . . .

Feeling a bit doomed tbh lol.
 
I have acute inflammatory prostatitis that I have learned to control well w/out medication barring the occassional NSAID like Ibuprofen when it flares up really badly. Mine doesn't manifest as pain so much as difficult urination, urinary urgency, or urinary retention. They key for me really getting it under control was diet and hot baths. Dietwise, I have cut out all refined sugars. Once in a while I may have a desert made with stevia or some other artificial sweetener but outside of fresh fruit, I consume no sugar. I also cut out all spicy foods. I don't eat fried foods, caffeine, or any type of herbal tea either. Even a small bit of any of these things will trigger a flare up within 24 hours. As crazy as it sounds, even a Hershey's Kiss will leave me uncomfortable for several days.

Occassionally, stress will trigger a flare up. I can normally tell when it's beginning so when it starts getting tough to pee, I jump into a hot bath ASAP. I normally sit for 20 minutes 2 x day and it stops flare-ups dead. Once in a great while, I wait too long to get in a bath and have to deal with several days of urinary discomfort but that can be relieved by Ipuprofen 2x daily on a full stomach for the duration of the flareup + 3 days afterward.

Prostatitis sucks at first but once you learn to control flare-ups, life is almost the same as before. I just eat less junk food.
 
ive actually been trying to avoid refined sugars for a year or so now, for my immune system mainly (which i must say is working, 8 months, 1 cold compared to a cold every 2 - 3 weeks)

well what mine does to me is :

- Frequent urination
- dont always feel like im empty
- Stings/burns on ejaculation (but not all the times)
- Stings/ burns for up to 2 hours after ejaculation and i feel i need to urinate for 2 hours too.
- after ejaculation i seem to dribble sperm for a couple of hours, which is annoying.


Ive been put on Doxycycline antibiotics 100mg, once a day, 28 day course.
How long would these take to work till i notice a change?
 
You may see some relief w/in the first 14 days. As normally instructed w/ antibiotics, take them until the full cycle is complete; even if you feel better.

Did your doc to a urinalysis or test prostatic fluid? Where you able to determine if the problem is bacterial?
 
^ Na i literally just had a finger up my arse.

I also had my urine tested for UTI's. (that was my first request) But clear.

This course of antibiotics. its 28 days long so new years is out the window for me, it dont matter ill just get stoned lol.
But they make you light sensitive and quite badly too. Usually i cant wait till the sun comes up on a nice bright day. Today i have the blinds shut and im thinking is toooo bright.....

i had a cystoscopy done twice or more now, as i also have hypospadias, and i read somewhere that catheters can also cause prostatitis, i had a catheter in me for ages, due to my hypospadias.
So when i had the last Rigid cystoscopy done, i was living elsewhere at the time, and it was about 30+ miles away, i got to the clinic and had it done but i couldnt get back there for the followup. They wouldnt tell me details over the phone either so i put up with the pain after the procedure for nothing.


I definately drew the short straw when it came to quality of penis/ bladder Lol!
 
^

I read differently, and in experience find it differently too, that.

If i leave it for a few days then jack off im in agony with the burning ,
but if i do it everyday its quite sore afterwards but not as bad, and being a very sexually frustrated guy (Ie i wont sleep until i do sometimes) i have no choice....

Lol i remember when i was in a relationship id have sex twice as well as jack off twice as well in the same day hahahaha.

But basically i read that if you constantly masturbate you help to drain the fluids in the prostate, but there are different types of prostatitis, i think mine is caused from have hypospadias and the length of time i had a catheter in me and stuff.


This is destroying me tbh, and also i cant seem to put any strength or mass on? even eating shedloads of high protein and good foods and working out every Other day, i cant seem to gain any...
 
I have been having this problem for 4 months now. Mine was caused by excessive anal stimulation in august. I went to see many urologists and never was conclusive. I did HARDCORE antibiotics for weeks to no real effect. I have done an enormous amount of research on this and most of the people diagnosed with prostatitis have absolutely no bacteria in their system. you most likely, and I am very serious, have a pelvic pain disorder. What happens in your muscles in your pelvic are as hyper-tense and are contracted constantly. You basically have experienced a type of muscle amnesia and your brain does not know how to relax the muscles.

These muscle issues cause all of your symptoms. I had burning while urinating, extremely painful post-ejaculation, pain around my waist and dribbling. this is NOT an infection, its a muscle disorder that looks like an infection. Basically, you cant do this on your own. Stretching does not help your muscles too much because you are just extending the muscles in a contracted state which can make it worse. you need to lengthen through physical therapy, specifically trigger point therapy.

I promise you, this will go away but it wont go away with antibiotics. Your mind is extremely powerful and stress will only stabilize the pain, rather than relieve it. here are some extremely helpful links:


though this is for mostly women, the way you heal is VERY similar - http://www.icadvice.com/node/26

this whole site is very informative - http://www.prostatitis.org/myofascial.html

PLEASE send me a PM. I would love to help you. I am getting through this and I see the end of it. I can help you if you need it
 
Much Appreciated!

Ive read your Pm's just replied. Thank you, im nearing the end of my antibiotics which if ive had symptoms for 4 years i dont think are going to make it all go away that easily.
 
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