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Pre-cum & Cuddling

ProfessrHyperdimensional

ProfessrHyperdimensional

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I recently started a cuddling fling. I was also calling it snuggling so if you prefer that term by all means now.

The first time we came together, or rather I got her shorts wet with my pre-cum that shocked her, and I kept insisting I didn't come but she was still surprised anything came out at all while cuddling, we were both on kratom. We also kissed so intimately like crazy tongue action. Anyways this is just about the concern of pre-cum coming out while cuddling.

I guess since I practice sexual transmutation the reservoir is always loaded and any little arousal with a female can cause pre-cum to arise which according to WebMD is very normal. The older you get and the weaker your libido gets, I am thinking this might not happen.

Edit: I started wearing boxers under an outside layer so it wouldn't get her wet again as it always comes out. What a cuddle queen she is.

Double edit (poor sense of humor with these edit things I'll stop now): If I don't press myself down there all the way against her I can kind of keep myself from getting too aroused and it is purely physiological arousal as I am not trying to have sex with her psychologically so to speak. Not unless she really gets in the mood one of these days.
 
If you masturbate a few hours before your cuddle sesh that should dry you out.
 
yeah I get wet when i'm turned on... been that way since i can remember. natural and no problems with it. comes in handy sometimes.... ?
 
ProfessrHyperdimensional said:
If I don't press myself down there all the way against her I can kind of keep myself from getting too aroused and it is purely physiological arousal as I am not trying to have sex with her psychologically so to speak. Not unless she really gets in the mood one of these days.
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So you aren't having sex with her?

It seems like your pre-cum is being exacerbated by your blue balls.
 
The fact you guys just brush this off as normal is what is fascinating lol.

As it stands pre ejaculate usually serves no other purpose, than lubrication and “troops out front to pave the way.” The fact you are aroused is the Psychological process of help yourself or your frontal lobe will do it for you. Job done!!
 
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For me especially if I'm really into the girl I'm cuddling with, I've had cuddling lead to sensual four play. Never full on sex though.
Both times though, I guess because of the build up I nearly shot it across the fucking room. Its really all about who you are with, and how you get to the climax. After day 3 our bodies stop producing semen, and begin to reabsorb anything extra.

Still,probably the most intense orgasm ive ever had was the result of just innocent cuddling.
 
The one time me and my ex cuddled i couldn't even get hard.

So i threw her on the bed and ripped her pants off and got hard AF.

Awesome that you can get cuddle boners. I wish it were that easy :(
 
Can't say cuddling has ever made me horny...I suppose if one persons butt and the other persons genitals were kinda rubbing together...
I tend to think of romance and lust and two completely separate things, with cuddling being in the romance category...but yeah, I can see where there could be cross-over.
 
I completely agree, the act itself of cuddling didnt make me horny. It was, having gone so long without getting off, being with the girl Im in love with. Don't really need much in the way of touch to get rock hard.

As cliche as it may seem,love makes a massive difference in intensity. All around.
 
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