Ugh Im acting the way I always swore I wouldnt when I met someone I was interested in! Shoot me now.
So the guy has been busy and we havent had much contact, which has really sucked. The first week was 400 smses and phone calls every night. This past week has been a 400 smses from me and few from him. He's been working long hours, which I sympathise with.
I guess I expect people to act how I would act. I would send a reply sms as soon as I left work, rather than when I got home from work/gym/shopping. Tonight is a good example. I called him last night and left a message; this morning he smsed saying he had left work late and was driving to meet friends on the coast and his phone has been on silent so he hadnt heard the call. Anyway, I sent an sms in reply saying cool, have a good weekend. Tonight I couldnt stand it so I rang him, got his voicemail again. He rang me on his way back to his place. Unfortunately I was in the middle of cooking. So yeah.....he'd gotten all my calls and stuff, but hadn't bothered to send a quick message or anything.
*sigh* I know Im reading too much into it, and I know Im probably coming off as a stalker. Grrr. This always happens - I become a happy single, someone shows interest in me, something starts, then they fizzle.
Anyways, Im trying to be upbeat about it all and just chillax. I reeeeeally want to smoke some pot but I wont. I hope he calls back later....be good to chat to him like last week, and maybe sus out if he wants me to come visit him again soon.
-end the ramblings of a whack job
So the guy has been busy and we havent had much contact, which has really sucked. The first week was 400 smses and phone calls every night. This past week has been a 400 smses from me and few from him. He's been working long hours, which I sympathise with.
I guess I expect people to act how I would act. I would send a reply sms as soon as I left work, rather than when I got home from work/gym/shopping. Tonight is a good example. I called him last night and left a message; this morning he smsed saying he had left work late and was driving to meet friends on the coast and his phone has been on silent so he hadnt heard the call. Anyway, I sent an sms in reply saying cool, have a good weekend. Tonight I couldnt stand it so I rang him, got his voicemail again. He rang me on his way back to his place. Unfortunately I was in the middle of cooking. So yeah.....he'd gotten all my calls and stuff, but hadn't bothered to send a quick message or anything.
*sigh* I know Im reading too much into it, and I know Im probably coming off as a stalker. Grrr. This always happens - I become a happy single, someone shows interest in me, something starts, then they fizzle.
Anyways, Im trying to be upbeat about it all and just chillax. I reeeeeally want to smoke some pot but I wont. I hope he calls back later....be good to chat to him like last week, and maybe sus out if he wants me to come visit him again soon.
-end the ramblings of a whack job
