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Post Ejaculatory Guilt Syndrome (PEGS)

ohai-o

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So recently, every time I ejaculate inside my girl, I feel like 'why did I just do that'? And I feel like facepalming.
Even when I masterbate to internet porn. I think to myself 'why the fuck did I just jerk off over THAT'? And I have to close the window ASAP cause I dont wanna see that shit anymore.

Anyways. I found out it's called 'post ejaculatory guilt syndrome'. http://wikidumper.blogspot.com/2007/04/post-ejaculatory-guilt-syndrome.html

Does anyone else get the same thing? Is there any way to cure this?
 
It's a side effect of the prolactin that is released in your brain in response to an orgasm.

It's completely natural.

It can also make you moody with your partner over the course of the next 24 hours or so.

Just be aware of what's happening in your brain and you'll realize how you're acting and stop it.
 
YES. i am a girl but this also happened to me. much more when i was younger. i never thought of it as 'guilt' it usually was more of a feeling of total doom...but guilt is also there in the feeling. a why am i doing this feeling.

it would happen immediately after the orgasm and last a minute or so. i never really gave it that much thought and over the years it happened less and less. it hasnt happened in a long time.


does anyone know why it happens though? why some people experience and others dont?
 
Yep. I do know what you're talking about. For me, it was because for a long time I felt shame at my desires my turn ons. Once I did some therapy to learn to accept myself, all my kinkiness included, the guilt I felt after orgasm diminished greatly. I do think it is something more than a simple shift in hormones, at least it was in my case.
 
weird. the only thing i ever experience after i nut, wether it be in a female, into a sock, while watching porn, in a busy mall with old people watching is....





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This is pretty common specially in teens.

I seem to remember being told that it was to do with nature and the need to stop you from doing it again in the immediate future.

Imagine your a lion..........you have sex and this chemical in your body makes you want to go away and leave the female alone after you nut. She can then go about her business preparing for the child without you being arround to annoy her.

Of course the lion doesnt question it, it just does whereas you question it and get all upset.


As you get older you no longer get affected by such things...........tolerance maybe.


Anyways its perfectly normal..........dont hassle about it.
 
Only happens when I wank... never happened after cumming in/with a girl.
 
my ex always felt guilty even after we were married! fucking catholic guilt trip. it made our sex life pretty boring and eventually nonexistent.
 
the only time I could ever see this getting to me is if I just came after watching some real freaky porn...

like "I just came?! to THAT?! what would my mother think about me nutting to some poor lass getting it on in the Oval Office with two men, one with a Bill Clinton mask and the other with a Ronald Reagan mask?"
 
Yep, it was always really freaky porn or erotica with bondage and other stuff like that which gave me that guilt feeling.... this was when I was younger and didn't know as much. When I ventured into the "adult" world more as an adult I saw that bondage paled in comparison to some of the freaky stuff out there, and it made me feel a lot more "normal" lol...

Also it never happens to me with my partner either, I think because my partner even further justifies my turn ons by exploring them with me without at all thinking of them as weird.
 
I would have P.E.G.S. if i nutted in my girlfriend too. if your not trying to get her pregnant not a smart thing to do buddy. Even if shes on the pill.
 
the only time I could ever see this getting to me is if I just came after watching some real freaky porn...

like "I just came?! to THAT?! what would my mother think about me nutting to some poor lass getting it on in the Oval Office with two men, one with a Bill Clinton mask and the other with a Ronald Reagan mask?"


Ha! I totally get this. I was discussing it with a male friend of mine - he coined it "porn trauma". I used to get it a lot worse when I was younger - the guilt, shame, depression feeling - but as I've gotten older I've come to accept it, and accept the fact that a lot of it is due to hormones, and it's not a big deal any more. Now I just kind of laugh about it to myself. And make sure to close the window with the double anal penetration gangbang video as soon as I've come.
 
the only time I could ever see this getting to me is if I just came after watching some real freaky porn...

like "I just came?! to THAT?! what would my mother think about me nutting to some poor lass getting it on in the Oval Office with two men, one with a Bill Clinton mask and the other with a Ronald Reagan mask?"
Ohh gosh I know
Its like
"Did this seriously just make me come"

Lol. But hey what ever tickles ur pickle
 
Ha! I totally get this. I was discussing it with a male friend of mine - he coined it "porn trauma". I used to get it a lot worse when I was younger - the guilt, shame, depression feeling - but as I've gotten older I've come to accept it, and accept the fact that a lot of it is due to hormones, and it's not a big deal any more. Now I just kind of laugh about it to myself. And make sure to close the window with the double anal penetration gangbang video as soon as I've come.
Yeah like a Sasha grey gang bang VERY DIRTY GIRL! Geezz
 
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