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Pleasure in choking??

I've choked girls before durin sex, good times...

I've had girls scratch my back so hard it that the claw marks begin to bleed, sometimes that's awesome
 
Who knew we had so many freaks on bl? ;)

Unfortunately I'm out of the club yet again. :(

OT: I saw this House episode a few nights ago where the Harold from Harold and Kumar liked getting this done.
 
Its the best when you're the big spoon chokin your lover. feels so natural
 
Stupid how? Some people truly get off on it, and its relatively safe as long as you trust your partner.
 
mmm I love it.
I'm very into my man being in charge.
The other day my boyfriend and I were just playing around and like wrestling he kneeled on my arms so I couldnt move and definitely put his hands around my neck and then kissed me...
I can't even describe it.
I've been choked durinng sex before and it's hot but it was even better when we weren't even in a sexual element.
You know he got some that night. haha
 
Don't get me wrong, I'm a bit kinky myself, so I don't have a problem with rough sex. And a light pressure on someone's neck, or hands over thier mouth, for brief intervals, is not the most dangerous thing in the world.

But choking someone out is VERY dangerous. And the thing is, neither the choker nor the chokee can ALWAYS tell when someone's about to pass out. And they don't always just wake back up, either.

Mistakes happen and people die from doing this. You can make your own choices, but know that you're playing a really risky game. You could die, or be charged with murder, if something goes wrong.

And choking yourself out while you're alone? Oh man, that's so crazy. If something goes wrong there, you're gonna wind up just like the guy from INXS. Meaning: dead, and everyone thinking you committed suicide, when you were just getting yourself off.

Do what you want. But don't think it's not risky, because it is.
 
MazDan said:
This is about where I draw the line.

This is a very stupid idea.
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no offense buddy but you know i used to troll ED so i kinda know why you have that thought process
 
pullstring said:
no offense buddy but you know i used to troll ED so i kinda know why you have that thought process
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Feel free to elaborate?

All I said was that it was a stupid idea. Thats my opinion. And I stand by it.
 
^ I imagine it has to do with the strange rituals that many E-users indulge in (such as cutting air supply for a while), but I could be wrong...
 
I really like choking and being choked. I have found that most girls actually like it after you introduce them to it. Just as long as they are very turned on and in the mood to get rough.

I like it when a girl chokes me, spits on me, slaps me, and treats me otherwise as a filthy punishment deserving boy.

I really like to be in control a lot of the time, but it is SOOOO hot when the tables are turned and the girl gets uber rough with me. I think so many women like getting choked because they like to feel dominated in the bedroom.

It is pretty typical. I don't think it is abnormal at all. Just hot and sexy.
 
Jamshyd said:
^ I imagine it has to do with the strange rituals that many E-users indulge in (such as cutting air supply for a while), but I could be wrong...
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ding ding ding ding!!

hit it head on!

PLEASE dont take that even slightly harsh Maz, you know I love ya!
 
e-hugs *sigh*

i could definitely see the erotic element in choking, but a safe word is certainly a good idea for this kind of play. sheesh, just reading this thread is getting me all hot & bothered! now i see why you guys like SLR so much. :D
 
vampire bites maybe..... choking is distracting when you're trying to cum...lol....
and if someone slaps me-they're gonna get the shit kicked outta them.
 
dominance thing. the lady doesnt insist on being choked, but its like apart of foreplay at times so to speak. just kinky, i think its fun. I however dont want to be choked :p
 
I did this last night with a friend who I date and it was HOT!

He was wearing my leather cop gloves (no I'm not a cop, I just have a fetish for them/their uniforms) and he consensually (I asked him to choke me lightly and I wanted it) lightly choked me and did some light face slapping and I lightly choked him a bit and we spit into each other's mouths. I'd also put my hand over his mouth and I once pinched his nose shut with a hand; but not his mouth and nose at the same time.

I've been choked by people when I didn't want it as abuse and to hurt me and trust me, this isn't what was happening at all and it didn't feel like it at all and it wasn't nearly as physically/psychologically abusive, or as scary, as being choked when you don't want it is.

Also the reason I enjoyed it has nothing to do with the fact that I have been abused in the past this way.

Many people who have been abused/raped/etc. do happen to enjoy BDSM/erotic power exchange and it is nothing like real abuse/rape is.
 
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