Pleasure in choking??

[fatallyflawed]

So my wife likes to be choked right before orgasm. I dont mind it but I was wondering if anyone here who likes it can explain what it is that does it for you??

 

[MethaContin]

So my wife likes to be choked right before orgasm. I dont mind it but I was wondering if anyone here who likes it can explain what it is that does it for you??

Nice lol!!!!! i'd like to strangle this bitch i was gonna get with right now....... :D

 

[Swerlz]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Autoerotic_asphyxiation

 

[ladyinthesky]

i dont think its before orgasm but i like it too....pleasure spiked with pain is just so much better IMO

LOL @Swerz: can we try that???

 

[NikkiNumberNine]

I would not do it, myself. I mean, for a second or two, or really lightly, is probably okay, but I would not do it very much, it's definitely dangerous.

 

[Tryptamite]

Please be carefully. Imagine how embarrassing it would be if you actually killed her.

 

[fatallyflawed]

umm

we arent talking like blue and purple

but enough where she knows that she is being choked

 

[MethaContin]

Please be carefully. Imagine how embarrassing it would be if you actually killed her.

lol thats the plan!!!!!!!!!

 

[TheDEA.org]

I assume it 'works' because when the brain realizes it's being strangled, it spikes adrenaline and dopamine levels (the 'fight or flight' response.) That would likely increase the intensity of orgasm.

 

[Jamshyd]

Swerz beat me to that link.

I am not unlike your wife, and I think DEA's explanation is pretty adequate. In fact, for me (and I know at least one other very pretty BL girl ), feeling "threat" or helplessness is as erotic as it can get.

 

[ladyinthesky]

^indeed it is

 

[Perpetual Indulgence]

Please apply restrained pressure on my throat, decrease my oxygen, and intensify my orgasm. Oh yes please.

When I first asked my then boyfriend, he never questioned it. I figure he has done this before or he understands the concept. My husband has is down. He is not into being choked. I asked. I don't like it with every sexual tryst. He will be appropriately spontaneous with it or I'll place a request.

 

[Lucky$trike]

yeah, i love the whole pleasure/pain deal. choking, pulling hair, scratching (not too hard tho :]). it makes sex sooo better and exciting. i like feeling like i'm being dominated. and good thing my boyfriend loves doin it too. :]

 

[_a_A_C_c_]

Swerz beat me to that link.

I am not unlike your wife, and I think DEA's explanation is pretty adequate. In fact, for me (and I know at least one other very pretty BL girl ), feeling "threat" or helplessness is as erotic as it can get.

pretty much sums it up for me, except i like to feel threatened

 

[NikkiNumberNine]

umm

we arent talking like blue and purple

but enough where she knows that she is being choked

Oh, I'm sure you're cool. But when I see people discuss this, I always feel compelled to just mention that it is very risky if you go too far, because some people really might not realize that um, yeah, you can actually die this way, if you're not careful.
My contribution to sexual harm reduction.

 

[Sugar and Spice]

Just make sure its with a partner you really trust. You may be down, but who knows about your partner? They may not be that experienced, may not know how far they can go, and may not be able to tell when they've gone too far. Or in the heat of the moment they may not be able to read how you're doing until its too late.

I was with someone and had to shove his hands away because the pressure was too much. I couldn't really do much except a small cough and he couldn't see my face because it was dark. That lame line "you just didn't know your own strength!" was a scary reality that night.

Prepare, trust and play safe!

 

[inotocracy]

My ex use to request I put a belt around her neck and pull it tight during doggy style. Never quite understood it, but she got off on it. It kind of turned me on too though honestly, but I think that could be because of the domination-like factor. Oh and if she choked me while on top she would cum almost instantly, very strange.

 

[MattPsy]

Yes I really enjoy this. I've had partners use my scarf to choke me when I come... it cuts off air and circulation really well with enough tension but leaves no bruising.
It makes my orgasm much more intense and longer lasting and I love the domination aspect... I like to feel helpless and threatened sometimes. Them on top, using both their hands to apply tension and choking to my neck... HOT .
I do it to myself as well quite frequently.

 

[fatallyflawed]

I pretty much only apply enough pressure to where I can slightly feel the heart beat and I wont hold long

I guess its a good thing I totally dig my wife and wouldnt want to hurt her (well you know what i mean )

 

[fatallyflawed]

I assume it 'works' because when the brain realizes it's being strangled, it spikes adrenaline and dopamine levels (the 'fight or flight' response.) That would likely increase the intensity of orgasm.

sounds logical