sekio
Bluelight Crew
"If you truly love something , set it free". - anonymous
just because you can't function on an intimate level doesn't mean you must totally cut contact forever, it could very well be you would be better off platonic friends doing their own things.
that said, my attitude towards relationships is, they are a mutual exchange. If your partner is not in your corner, if the two of you don't actually enjoy the other's company, you are not obligated to continue bloodying your nose banging your head on a brick wall. Yes, the initial pangs of loneliness are hard to deal with, but it's also an opportunity for you to find someone you want to be around, and for them to reciprocate.
Penny Reid — 'Don't set yourself on fire trying to keep others warm.'
just because you can't function on an intimate level doesn't mean you must totally cut contact forever, it could very well be you would be better off platonic friends doing their own things.
that said, my attitude towards relationships is, they are a mutual exchange. If your partner is not in your corner, if the two of you don't actually enjoy the other's company, you are not obligated to continue bloodying your nose banging your head on a brick wall. Yes, the initial pangs of loneliness are hard to deal with, but it's also an opportunity for you to find someone you want to be around, and for them to reciprocate.
Penny Reid — 'Don't set yourself on fire trying to keep others warm.'
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