the only way to remove the harm is to remove the PIV entirely, but this is rarely seen as an option by anyone. NONE would be the exact-right amount in a female-centered world. the 2 flavors of the “sex fight” indicate that women arent happy with this reality AT ALL, and that it NEVER works to womens benefit to have PIV at all. really, i think the problem is that women *think* theres got to be an exact-right amount, more than zero, to make it worth it for them, and they are trying to explore that and find the magic number. they dont realize the number is ZERO. but it is. a little bit is too much, and a lot isnt enough. TRY ZERO, if you can. seriously. its so much better! and also the only *feminist* one but leaving that aside, its also SO MUCH BETTER. you know, for women. dont get stuck on the f-word if thats a problem.