Its funny you said that, someone else from work mentioned that to me the other day. But it was a gay man and it freaked me out a little bit, but now that you say it, as a hetrosexual man and say that its attractive, it sort of disturbs me less. Yeah I think its meant to by onyx or fake onyx... maybe Leecie can clarify. Im not really that feminine tbh... I dont wear makeup, I wear clothes that cover most of my body and I have short hair... maybe I shouldnt be so suprised at the androgynous comments !