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People in relationships: How often a week....

I don't think I can point to any times in the past 6 months that I've had sex and considered it "fucking" and not "making love." They've been kind of the same thing for me for a while.
 
i get what your trying to ask unbreakable.

i'd say my wife and i fuck 4 times a week, and make love aboout once a month. fucking is just so much easier plus we've got stressful jobs so we both have a lot of aggression to get out.
 
^ That is what i am getting at i have been with the same girl for two years... sex is more like business to get done... since we both are busy through the week with life things... Making love don't happen as much as i would like.... people go through life in the fast lane ; no time for making love to someone you love when you got bills and such... just something i was thinking about

i have talked to my gf about this and we will be trying to make a little more love :)
 
We like to have quickies and such, but we try to make love as often as possible.
making love is more fun, plus i think it is the ultimate in non-verbal communication as far as showing your s/o how much you love them.
 
if i fuck a girl, she becomes just that to me---a quick fuck.

but if a fuck turns into making love---that is something totally different, you're losing a part of yourself and gaining some of them.
 
I think passion is the easiest way to differentiate the two if you are in a relationship.

But as others have posted, if I pick up a girl at a bar, go back to her place, fuck, then dip before she wakes up the next morning..... that ladies and gentlemen is simply fucking.
 
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