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Wonderful photo! ^

Hope you had or are having a great roll, pepsox :D

Surprised to see so many e-cig smokers here, it's like there was a delay in it catching on since they have been around for a while now, but now I see everyone switching. My brother and his wife really can't quit smokes so they switched as well, definitely the lesser of two evils. I am personally very happy and feel blessed that I was able to quit smoking altogether...

I don't trust tramadol either, but I can wholeheartedly recommend O-desmethyltramadol. May not have the anti-depressant SRI euphoria but is still a good opy. Such a shame that O-desmethyl is not really available. What's up with that anyway?

Glad to see a lot of old skool PD-ers here <3 I think other people are happy about it as well, must be contributing to the Olympic social thread page records. ;)

On another note: I so wish that my living situation would allow me to get a cat. I love cats and I am so sad that my previous cat died. :( Raised him to be unable of doing badness.
 
Yeah, i havent smoked a single cigarette in about 3 month since i got my e-cig. Even the idea doesnt seem too appealing now.. yuck

Actually i think i dont need nicotine at all anymore. One day i forget to take my ecig to work and it didnt really matter. Its fun to vape some sometimes tho.

What do you guys think about snus? I dont mean that american version, but swedish style.
 
I'm probably not that familiar with it but the spitting seems like a disgusting habit?

I think if I would be using an e-cig I would take the menthol version like my brother's. One thing is for sure though: I really dislike the coals+apple tobacco shishah aroma (maybe kinda off-topic tho)
 
Snus is awesome, nicotine absorbs so nice from mouth. And ecigs never gave me the same kind lf of rush.. and from tobacco it can come too intense, make you dizzy and nauseous
 
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Swedish Snus has never been proven to be harmful if I recall correctly, right?

PepperSocks, I'm glad you took the plunge and mixed those two. I'd like to hear more about how it went :)
 
finally went to the clinic to have a doc look at my frostbite... this new affordable care clinic just opened in my town on monday, so i figured why not.

the doc basically just told me to keep doing what i'm doing... no prescription or anything

waste of $20 lol
 
Argh... so my wife called me and she got a plane ticket to arrive back here... TOMORROW! And she has asked that I give her the same space she got after we talk about things and decide on the steps to proceed, and go visit my parent for around a month in about a week from now. It's not that I don't want to see my parents, I do, in fact my dad has ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease) and so all the time I can spend with him is priceless (it usually is fatal in 4-7 years and he's had it about a year and I live 700 miles away from them). It's just, man, so sudden, it's too fast. And I have a life here, it's just about to get warm, I've got my art stuff to do... and her mom tells me she wishes she would wait awhile, that she's not healthy yet, but she's unwilling to force her to stay because she says she's an adult. But there's nothing I can really do. I'm kinda pissed she's throwing a wrench into things, I was really starting to get used to and enjoy my time alone. Now, even if my parents aren't prepared to have me for a month, I'll have her around if I stay in town. I want to be nice and amicable but I wish she would stay away for longer.

Now I don't even know how to feel.
 
Xorkoth said:
Argh... so my wife called me and she got a plane ticket to arrive back here... TOMORROW! And she has asked that I give her the same space she got after we talk about things and decide on the steps to proceed, and go visit my parent for around a month in about a week from now. It's not that I don't want to see my parents, I do, in fact my dad has ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease) and so all the time I can spend with him is priceless (it usually is fatal in 4-7 years and he's had it about a year and I live 700 miles away from them). It's just, man, so sudden, it's too fast. And I have a life here, it's just about to get warm, I've got my art stuff to do... and her mom tells me she wishes she would wait awhile, that she's not healthy yet, but she's unwilling to force her to stay because she says she's an adult. But there's nothing I can really do. I'm kinda pissed she's throwing a wrench into things, I was really starting to get used to and enjoy my time alone. Now, even if my parents aren't prepared to have me for a month, I'll have her around if I stay in town. I want to be nice and amicable but I wish she would stay away for longer.

Now I don't even know how to feel.
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Im so sorry man. My grandma died cuz of als. I know how hard it is. All the best for you.
 
Thanks, I appreciate it, it hasn't really sunk in yet.

Man I can't WAIT til I'm past all of this stuff with my wife and we're separate and living our own lives. Her mom emailed me saying "delay it, don't do it now, I'm telling you this is not good", but it was too late, she already has the ticket and stuff. I am hoping now that her mom just confronts her and tells her she has to stay. I mean when I was on the phone with my wife it seemed to make sense, now looking back I'm like, what was I thinking, I should have told her no. She has that effect on me, it's like I can't say no to her. Fuck.
 
Normally when I get zero hours of sleep (note: I hate doing this, I'm a big fan of sleeping), I feel like death in the morning. Today I'm alert and energized, last time this happened I was up for three days. :| I really don't wanna go to work tomorrow at 48 hours awake, it's just plain unpleasant.


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I'm probably not that familiar with it but the spitting seems like a disgusting habit?
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You don't spit with snus, as I recall it is or was banned in the EU, so it's not surprising you're unfamiliar with it.

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Once you drive it for a while it's not more difficult than driving automatic, it becomes effortless.
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But you can't eat with one hand, use your phone with the other, while driving with your elbows/knees when you're using a manual transmission! Such an inefficient use of your time.
 
Xor, I feel for you.

I got pretty damn close to going through with a divorce myself. I got to thinking about the practical aspects of divorce and found it pretty complicated, even without any debt or a house...and no kids, thank god. I suggest you start thinking about this stuff and consult a lawyer if you are really going to go through with it. You mentioned that your wife has a fair amount of debt, which is definitely worth considering as typically all assets and debts get split equally regardless of who accumulated them. I don't want to scare you, but it's probably worth thinking about these things sooner rather than later.

My story, in brief (because I'm not a prolific writer like Xor): Back in August, my wife suddenly decided that she had to move abroad and pursue her passion for work, at least in the short term. This was absolutely unexpected and totally devastating to me because I thought our relationship was really solid and couldn't imagine how she could even think of leaving. As it turned out there was a guy involved too, who had recently divorced his wife was planning to move to Afghanistan to do development work. It wasn't a classic affair, but it might as well have been...trust was broken. We agreed to work on things and started couples counseling, but they secretly continued to communicate by email after he moved away in September...I found this out when she moved out on new year's eve. She said that she needed more space to think. I gave her an ultimatum in early January...told her that I was going to file for divorce in a month simply because I couldn't take being in limbo any longer and things seemed to be going in that direction anyway. A good week went by before she did a complete 180. I think the change is genuine and we've made some progress, but damn, things are still pretty broken and there's a long way to go. She's moving back in on Sunday, so that will be the real test.
 
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Wow that's pretty intense Don. Sorry to hear. You're right, I need to talk to a divorce lawyer. She has a massive amount of debt, I am about to get mine discharged. Hers is student loan debt, not sure if it works the same. I think divorce laws vary by state, I always thought you could decide to do whatever you wanted, her parents got divorced and her mom didn't ask for anything and they just split and that was that.
 
Damn :( That must be difficult Xork, strenght and wisdom wished - I'm sure you will find a way through..

I couldn't really offer advice from personal experience but Dondante's post is insightfully relevant.
 
That is true. As long as you agree, you can split things however you want. And yes, laws vary by state, so I don't know exactly how things work in NC.
 
Wow...welcome back, Xorkoth!

It's great to see you back around...I hope everything works out for you

<3
 
Xorkoth said:
Wow that's pretty intense Don. Sorry to hear. You're right, I need to talk to a divorce lawyer. She has a massive amount of debt, I am about to get mine discharged. Hers is student loan debt, not sure if it works the same. I think divorce laws vary by state, I always thought you could decide to do whatever you wanted, her parents got divorced and her mom didn't ask for anything and they just split and that was that.
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The google tells me that if the student loan debt was incurred during your marriage/provided increased income that benefited your household, the court may shift some or all of that debt over to you. I'm sure there's plenty more involved, but I'm not a lawyer, married, or a North Carolinian, so whatever.

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waste of $20 lol
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You know what Ben Franklin said, "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure."
 
Xor, as long as she doesn't sell your house and steal the cash (watch the fuck out bro, take valuables), you can enjoy this month, just look at it as a blessing to get closer with your dad. As long as you don't leave something for her to ruin, she can't ruin anything :)
 
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