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Haha. Yeah I put on my Tinder profile that I just got out of a long-term relationship. A huge lesson I learned is that I need to be honest in relationships going forward. And I guess perhaps it will also work to my advantage :D
 
its the exact opposite for guys, i think. if i find out a girl is in a relationship, i immediately lose interest.

not only do i feel solidarity with the bros of this earth, and wish to place their well-being before the ho's, it just seems to be a turn off in general. it just feels gross to be smashing another d00d's wizard sleeve
 
Oh I totally agree with that. I don't want to go for someone who's already in a relationship. Bad karma for one thing. Plus what Roger said so eloquently. =D
 
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That's because they know there is a good chance he can't be too mentally ill if some other dame is already able to put up with his shit.


Roger&Me said:
my new strategy: no matter how long i've been out of an LTR i'm always going to say i just got out of one
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This should be a default. Get with the program.



And I'm with you guys I don't want the shloppy seconds.
 
xammy said:
Maybe I should start pretending that I'm on a relationship
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Laika said:
I think that would be pushing it.
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i agree with laika, but just because pretending to be in a relationship is a harder lie to pull off than pretending to have just gotten out of one

Xorkoth said:
Heh heh, yeah.

How many of you guys are in a relationship?
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from the age of 19 to the age of 24 or 25 i went through a series of bad relationships and one-night-stands. i am now 27 and have been single for a couple years, and haven't even had sex in a year and a half.

for awhile i was really happy single but lately i really have been aching for a relationship.

my life is in a shambles tho and i am in no state to subject another human being to my bullshit
 
I dont even look for a long lasting relationship at this age (22) let alone a life lasting haha. I dont see it happening yet. Maybe when im 30. Im still a fucking kid, i dont see myself playing a family in a long time.
 
yeah some of my biggest mistakes were entering committed relationships at too young of an age

wasted half of my college years in a relationship with one girl
 
i was in a relationship from 18-25. looking back on it, 18 was way too young to get into a committed relationship like that. at this point, after a dose of much-needed perspective, i don't think i'll be ready to really settle down with anyone until i'm in my mid-30's.

i will say that i still love her though, and probably always will. when you grow up with somebody like that, they become a permanent part of you. i still wake up sometimes and roll over to cuddle with her, forgetting she's not next to me. those are the kinds of small little moments that really rip your heart out and throw it on the floor and step on it.
 
I've been in a relationship since 24 and I'm 28 now. I've lived with her since the beginning of 2010. Met on Bluelight so she does not mind psychedelic usage even though she decided they weren't for her, or that she had seen enough at the very least a couple of years ago. She'll still smoke DMT though lol. And the other givens, that anyone on bluelight would do if it were around, K, MDMA, and so on when the timing is right.(when we have it, lol.)
 
Roger&Me said:
i was in a relationship from 18-25. looking back on it, 18 was way too young to get into a committed relationship like that. at this point, after a dose of much-needed perspective, i don't think i'll be ready to really settle down with anyone until i'm in my mid-30's.

i will say that i still love her though, and probably always will. when you grow up with somebody like that, they become a permanent part of you. i still wake up sometimes and roll over to cuddle with her, forgetting she's not next to me. those are the kinds of small little moments that really rip your heart out and throw it on the floor and step on it.
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Yes this is exactly how I feel, all of it. 18 is when I got into mine too and it was like strong like at first sight (we both felt each other was special, she said she knew she'd marry me when we first dated). We were straight up kids. All of college was spent with her, though we had some wild times. And all of my life since up until now. I discovered a variety of things that were issues between the way we lived our lives, and if I had been older, with more experience, I would have just ended it early before it hurt too much. I will always love her too, we literally grew up together, our families got to know and love us while we were growing up too so my mother in law is the best mother in law ever, I love her so much and I am like the son she never had (her words). Her little sister is my little sister, we haven't even told her yet. My nephew is her son and he's my family. Her grandparents are my grandparents. Our lives are 100% intertwined. That's the saddest part.

We also have 2 cats together, don't know how that will go. I have them now because she can't even take care of herself at the moment. We won't want to separate the 2 cats because they're mother and son and it would be traumatic to separate them. Maybe we'll take turns having them? Who knows, it's hard to think about.

I feel like it would be awesome to meet someone on Bluelight. :)
 
Being into psychedelics and drugs in general it kinda limits the potential partners... not saying she would have to use drugs, but i dont see myself with someone who is totally against drugs. We just wouldnt share the same picture of the world..
 
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