pharmakos
Bluelighter
Never trust people who are kind and supportive towards everyone, they are liars. I mean, we go through a conversation where I talk about a bunch of painful personal shit that I am very unwilling to talk about, then they say something nice blah blah no you're a worthwhile person. But are they willing to reciprocate? No, with one exception, and that is their real opinion of me. *grumble grumble* Yes, I am still rankling over that. The moral of the story is that you should be wary of giving knee-jerk kind responses to people, 'cause if that's all you give them they know that your words are empty, and that just hurts them more. 'course I know PDers are genuinely good people at a higher than average rate, but it's still a lesson that needs teaching.
look for the nines. people that always tell you you're a 10 are delusional. people that rank you low aren't worth your time. its the people that rank you as a nine, the ones that see your potential but know you're not quite perfect. those are the ones that give the best advice.
LSDMDMA&13021555 said:
that molecule could use some accessories tbph.