part time boyfried...:(

[~succubus~]

soo me and my boyfriend have lived together for 6 years and together almost 7..I have felt lately like he's there only part time..we both have different work schedules and only get a few days together a month..stuff is starting to take a tole on me..neither one can change our work schedules, and im getting very frustrated and don't know what to do anymore? any advice..
a couple days a month isn't cutting it anymore and I don't know how much longer I can take it..

 

[nooneanymore]

Its called growing up and getting lives of your own and having work responsibilities. Just be glad that you don't have kids. Atleast you two know each other and have history to draw on...

I'm single and work so much that I don't even have time to get to know anyone. I can get a few dates a month or whatever; or meet up with some one on the weekends, but I don't think I'll ever get a chance to really know someone the way I knew my college gf who I spent so much time with...

 

[llama112]

Do you want to break up?
That's what it kinda seems like you're getting at.
I mean, you can't change your work schedules ...
My boyfriend and I have only been able to see each other a few days each month for the past couple months, due to work, school, etc. It sucks but we see an end to it (next month!). That, and I'd rather only be able to see him a few times a month than not see him at all (aka not date him). Lesser of two evils, I suppose.

Besides changing your work schedule, changing your sleep schedule, and changing your relationship, I'm not sure what else there is to do.