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Overprotective Family Worried to Let Go

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nataly66687

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You ever have parents that were over protective of you? Not letting you do much of anything, like driving a car, even if you had a license, but you did not work or go to college, but still did not let you drive? Why not? Because they were afraid, of you getting into a car accident, due to the crazy drivers out there, and then your family getting sued, loosing your house, along with everything in it etc. Because when you think about, you can be driving out in town and then accidentally run over a dog, cat, or human being, doing this can cause you to go to jail, and while it MIGHT be an accident serious stuff can happen. Or you could get into a car accident or car wreck and meet that person that sues you for all you have and you loose everything etc. So what is there for you to do? What would you do?
 
JessFR said:
Ignore them. They can't stop you. Just do it anyway and they'll eventually get used to it.
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That would be driving illegally without insurance and I could go to jail. I need insurance in order to drive. And they WILL NOT put me on their insurance because they think I will get into an accident and we will get sued. Even if our car insurance were cover us, people today are cruel and will sue you for everything you got.
 
I can see how they may be hesitant. Jess did not insinuate to drive illegally. It's assumed that you'd have the common sense to get a job, license, car, and insurance. If you are over 18 then obviously you can't be stopped. If you are not, I agree with your parents. You seem like you might have a little maturing to do first.
 
My dad bought me a car when I was 16 and lectured me on him losing everything if I did something stupid. But he made me get a job and pay him $150 every few months for the insurance.

Go to college in a place where there is plenty of transportation. Freedom, school, transportation, maturing, all the good stuff combined.
 
I want to drive like everyone else but even if I did find a job, I know my parents, they will NEVER EVER let me drive period.
 
So ignore them, they don't control you and have no right to forbid you from driving for such absurd paranoia, or for any reason.

Get your own insurance so you can drive legally, then do it anyway. If you can't right now, work towards getting what you need to legally drive. Even if you were sued, their personal worry is stupid. You being sued can't bankrupt them, just you. And you won't be sued anyway, I've been driving everyday for 11 years, been in one accident, insurance covered it. And I'm not even that great a driver.

You have a choice, follow their rule, or be an independent adult. Show them you are an adult and have the right to do anything they can and that while you understand they're afraid, that's their hangup, it's not your responsibility to make them feel ok with it.
 
If you're over 18, you need to start making decisions for yourself.

My mom was extremely controlling... and strict. I moved out on my 18th birthday. I got a job, lived at a church, and went to college. And now, I drive my boyfriend's car.
So you see? You can do it too.

Side note: changing parents is like the hardest thing to do if not impossible. You only have control over yourself and your actions.
 
After reading OP's threads I've been thinking if someone forgot to use condom once...
 
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