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Oral code of ethics

I disagree with what some have said....l really don't think you should withhold pleasure from her because she does not like to suck your cock.

I give BJs to my husband A LOT for several reasons....because he loves it, because they make him feel good, because I like doing it, because he is my life partner and his pleasure is very important to me.

Why would I withhold pleasure from him because he was not returning the favor in the way I want him to? That is a very immature move, and the relationship would absolutely suffer.

Sure, I wish that he gave me oral sex a lot more than he does, but he pleases me in many other ways, both inside the bedroom and out.

So my advice is to give freely and often. You might not reap your reward in blowjobs, but you will be rewarded by a satisfied partner who feels loved and appreciated. Totally worth it.
 
like a gun in many ways. Its something you gotta have, it needs to be clean, to be the right size, and well maintained. It should function emaculately.
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So it should be 155mm* in diameter, stink of oil and cordite and loudly belch out large quantities of hot sulphourus gas?

* Guns, in military terminology/jargon refers to artillery pieces like howitzers, field guns, chain guns (like on a heli or LAV) etc. Small arms are called weapons/rifles/side-arms/etc.
 
I dont think sex is a score-sheet- its about ding what feels good, giving and getting pleasure, but not in an eye-for-an-eye kind of way. If its something you dont enjoy, dont do it, period. You shouldnt have to "suffer" during sex, unless thats part of you BDSM scene, in which case, go ahead.
Personally, I enjoy giving on head. On mushrooms, I gave my dude a 90 minute BJ because my lips were so sensitive, it was a near-orasmic experience for me. However, I didn't then grab his head and say ok, now you owe me an hour an a half, then start a stopwatch.
NEVEER use sex as a punishment or weapon (With-hold pleasure out of spite). Thats just a recipe for disaster, and can screw up some women's concept of sexuality and just creates problems in the relationship.
 
rangrz said:
So it should be 155mm* in diameter, stink of oil and cordite and loudly belch out large quantities of hot sulphourus gas?

* Guns, in military terminology/jargon refers to artillery pieces like howitzers, field guns, chain guns (like on a heli or LAV) etc. Small arms are called weapons/rifles/side-arms/etc.
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ahaha

also to the people who think its about keeping scores- thats not how sex works BUT if someone is being selfish or if it is a dealbreaker for you then that should hold some weight.

i love getting head

to not giving head but expecting it for yourself is a form of hypocrisy. if you dont want to recieve oral or give it then thats fine. i wouldn't be interested in that person myself but it somehow feels less fraudulent than a selfish demand
 
i think i need to add
-not reading my boyfriend's old blogs
to my moral code of ethics before i lose my fucking mind.
he's a great writer but, fuck, i did not want nor need to know any of those thoughts or experiences he had. the sexual ones.
if i can't learn from the psychotic jealousy i had when i was younger, i can't learn from anything.

oh, ORAL. i see. well i think i'm fine in that department. /reading comprehension
 
^ Took me a couple minutes to get that...but I will agree direct insight into your SO's mind and thoughts is rather rarely a good thing :p
 
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