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Opiates and Sexual Drive

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deebomb

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This is my first post. Any suggestions on how to post would be great. Please be kind. {giggle}
I was wondering how is your sexual drive being on opiates. And how was it being sober? Did you feel intimacy best while using or while sober (suboxone, methadone, totally clean). Any tricks or ideas you may have to help with this situation are greatly appreciated. I’m trying to overcome a pretty hefty 8-10 year(on and off) opiate addiction (about 160mg oxycotin habit). I’ve been on Suboxone before but can’t quite remember how I felt sexually . I want to be clean and sober, but a part of me is scared. What’s the use being clean if I can’t enjoy sex, or even just intimacy? I love how the opiates make me feel sexy, smart, and confident. Don’t get me wrong, I am a confident person in general, opiates just give me that extra boost.

I know I’m going to have to overcome depression and give up some of my friends oh… and deal with paws and life without opiates; I however don’t want my libido to plummet to nothing (it usually does when I’m depressed). My husband would totally understand. He’s very supportive. I just feel terrible about all of the shit he has to put up with.
 
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Opiates take away the majority of my sex drive.

I'm just not as interested in being social or trying to get with girls.


However, when I taper/get clean sex drive goes into OVERDRIVE! I've been clean for about 2.5 weeks now though, so my sex drive isn't in overdrive anymore, but I'm thinking about girls constantly now. Nice change of pace :)
 
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Thanks for the reply and congrats on your clean time. I find it Interesting that you had no sex drive while high. I hope the same happens to me when Im sober {giggle} .
 
methadone basically took away my interest in sex completely. I've read studies (wish I had them saved, but this is my work laptop and my old one is tossed) stating habitual opiate use decreased testosterone in men (testing men in their 30s) - I think it's more than that (and I don't know if i believe it) because I ran around 500-800mg of testosterone enanthate or cypionate for majority of time I was on Methadone and STILL had no sex drive.

I'm on 800mgs of test cyp atm and a cold breeze gets me stiffer than a telephone pole.
 
theartofwar Im about 30mins away in the Raynham Taunton area. I dont live in Taunton just the next major city to me I live in a small tiny town no drugs here what-so-ever. I deff have to travel for my supply. lol...
 
I'm a male and I still have a sex drive when stoned of oxy or v's but I don't really care to do anything as I already feel freakin amazing. Amphetamines on the other hand crank me up like an energizer fuckbunny...
 
Weird, it increased mine by a lot, especially in the longevity department. I could go for hours. I'm talking about oxy though, never tried heroin.
 
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oh.. theartofwar, what the heck is test cyp atm???? hormones???
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testosterone cypionate is a long acting ester of testosterone created in europe 40 years ago (I believe on the date not 100% sure) . Simply put it's synthetic testosterone. An anabolic steroid - it's not quite as popular for hormone replacement therapy or TRT, they tend to use enanthate (another ester) - but I prefer it. And I'm 25, don't need to replace my test levels, but I openly admit I love steroids more than any rec drug, and everything that it offers my life.
 
when i wasn't high it'd be hard to climax and i fer sure didn't masturbate as much as i would pre addiction. when i was with a girl one time she was blowing me for like half an hour and i was jerking off and didn't come for what seemed like eternity. also like someone else said all i cared about was getting high.
 
on about 240 to 320mg of oxy once i get horny i can go anywhere from 11/2 to 4 hours straight in the sack and it feels great the whole time
 
Opiates make anti-ds look like a joke when it comes to murdering your sexdrive.

I'll give you an example lol. Off opiates I MUST either A) have sex once a day, or B) masturbate once a day, and thats minimum. But its not rare for me off opiates to have sex a couple times and masturbate all in the same day. I have a high sex drive which is evident.

ON opiates I don't masturbate EVER, I don't have sex, I don't think about women, I don't want women. The only thing left, is when I randomly catch my eye on a good looking girl. And it makes me happy to look at her, although thats the fullest extent it goes to. I don't fantasize, I don't dream about banging her, I just look at her and feel good for a second than forget what I was doing.
The only time now that I ever get an impulse to fuck is anytime I miss a dose and go into wds, which is pretty rare for me recently. So at this point I don't even see the point of having a penis anymore lol. I mean seriously I know I need to pee still but the thing just sits there collecting dust like its the fucking stoneage and I don't even get "accidental" erections anymore. Whats the point? Might as well just chop it off.

But seriously the most fucked up part about all of this is I like it.
I don't like thinking about sex 90% of my conscious days. Men are literally tortured by their sexdrives and its bullshit. Back when I was younger and had no idea how to talk to women I essentially spent 16 hours a day fighting the temptation to wanna fuck everything that walked. I think women assume that this is just naturally fun for men or something and its not. If I had a switch to turn if off trust me I would (well I did I guess with opies). Even later in life when I started getting laid it was all I thought about. Having sex does not rid the desire to wanna keep having sex lol. Like "let me just get it in once this morning and I'll be fine the rest of the day"... fuck that.

Its like I know that aspect of myself has died and I'm happy about it or something. But having a sexdrive for me really just equals a whole bunch of bs anxiety that I'd rather not deal with. Instead of wasting all my time chasing women around and trying to validate my fragile male ego I can focus on my career and make some money... or focus on things other than women.

Its it wrong to be ok with it? Maybe thats the real question.
 
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^ You bojangles are saying this while on opioids, and looking at it from the perspective of being on them. Many men enjoy becoming sober very much because of their returned libido even if they don't have access to sex. Being on opioids makes you lazy and think of the whole "game" as a big waste of time and work.

Being sober though, its like having newfound energy, and it is very fun and refreshing to have normal desires return. I'm not trying to talk anyone out of their habit, just thought your view was quite one-sided and inaccurate for most people.

To the OP, yeah being on opiates (usually in the "honeymoon" stages so I really doubt you have as big of a daily habit as you say) can increase some pleasure at first. Then it turns into a daily task to avoid feeling sick and to feel normal or at fleeting times, decent. For most people sex and sexdrive is better off opioids.
 
"Inaccurate for most people"?

What do you mean? Anyone whos on opiates that will be accurate for and anyone whos not it won't. By saying "for most people" you just mean you specifically in this current thread.

I stopped using opiates about 2-3 months ago and I DID enjoy having my sexdrive back. I know exactly what you're talking about and you didn't just reveal anything groundbreaking to the forum.
The whole point in me saying "I'm ok with it" is because its a rare statement. Some people are familiar with not having a sex drive, others are familiar with having one, but not to many people are familiar with the idea of liking opiates just because they kill your sex drive. What I did in my post was state an obvious side, than make another statement I thought some guys would be afraid to admit to or think about.

"oh what you LIKE not having a sex drive? what are you gay?"

What you wrote confused me cause you make it sound like I'm trying to convince people to use opiates so they're not tortured by their sexdrives. I was writing about MYSELF, and thus it SHOULD BE "onesided". Am I writing YOUR biography here? No, so again, what the hell is the point of even saying that?

Same way you are not on opiates, you just did the SAME exact thing I did. And if I responded to you right now "thats one sided cause your not on opiates" I'd feel like a moron... NO SHIT we are stating our opinions here aren't we?
I always look at things from both perspectives so please don't ever imply again that I'm bias in anyway. When I write something that is onesided thats BECAUSE I only wanted to mention that one side. Otherwise what do you expect me to do? Write 2 sides to something everytime I post?

Thanks captain obvious
 
on Morphine and Heroin I had no desire to have sex whatsoever, didn't even cross my mind, I'd get so high that my body was in a state of orgasm for hours at a time. During that time the only time it would even cross my mind would be if I took some amphetamine and was in mild withdrawal, then my sex drive would come back quick.

Pre opiates I had a very high sex drive, but now I'm on Suboxone and it's definitely much better, I'm interested in women again, if not obsessed with women, and my sex drive is slowly returning. Actually the longer I'm on it the more it feels like I'm not on anything except for those times when I go without it for awhile and then take a dose.

I actually enjoyed the way opiates killed my sex drive, made life so much more simple for awhile anyway.

Now, I'm glad it's coming back, I was also afraid it might disappear forever too!
 
No sex drive when on opiates whatsoever.

A few friends remedied that with cocaine, but I couldnt be even bothered as I had no interest in sex!
 
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