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Mugz said:
Oh no!!!!!! She's a Bruce Springsteen fan, I might have to cut all communication now 8)
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Yeah, I wouldn't be too pleased about that. Then again it's alright to disagree on music with a woman if you get on otherwise. I've yet to find a girl with exactly the same taste as me and I probably wouldn't want to. She'd be an oddball for sure.

I've no time for 'The Boss' though, really.
 
rockstar 69 said:
You really shouldn't be posting in this thread, go roll a spliff or something. The golden rule is never send more kisses than you are given, unless they've done something deserving of it and your overly excited about something. One less kiss than they send is standard. I'm not doing that at the moment though I get about 20 odd kisses off this one at the moment, it is a bit annoying but the princess has gotta get her kisses so I'm snookered.

It's sometimes a good way of testing how keen they are for you, like if they're sending 3, send an extra one back, if they don't follow suit they're either playing it savvy or not as keen as previously thought.



"Nice one! I've probably got a couple of days off next week if you fancy doing something?" Simple
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Seriously mate, wtf? Golden rule to the number of kisses you should put on a text? Your just getting caught up in the little games girls seem to love, as you say. I'm no pimp, but I know that your personality/attractiveness is a 100x more important than the fact you put xxxxx when she puts xxxxxx
 
I didn't get an x in the last message I got, and in most of the previous ones I got a big one and a small one, I wonder what that means 8) I don't the amount of Xs sent or received really makes much of a difference.

I've taken the plunge now though and asked if she fancied doing something next week, now comes the long, or not so long wait to see what she says.
 
^Indeed, my phone does that too, not for Xs though as I don't use them, except once today.

I'm anxiously awaiting the response the the "Do you fancy doing something next week" text, I need benzos, or booze, gonna go buy booze.
 
I think he is 100% serious mate. Rockstar knows all of the chavvy secrets of social networking and texting and sexting.

I'm still waiting for a reply, she is at work though, but I want a reply now, I want to know if she wants to go out with me next week.
 
Your just getting caught up in the little games girls seem to love
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Exactly... Girls seem to love... they like playing games (most of them), play along nicely. Keeps them entertained.

The game playing can backfire at times and you do get the odd one that is a bit too good at it, not often, and if they are it means they're going to be a destroyer and your going to fall for them after, basic economics.
 
Still waiting for a reply 2 hours after I sent my "Fancy doing something next week" text, I know she is working but hoped to have some sort of reply by now. I'f I dont have a reply by 9pm then I'll send another text saying that maybe it was too soon to suggest a meetup and did she want to exchange facebook details.
 
Mugz said:
I'f I dont have a reply by 9pm then I'll send another text saying that maybe it was too soon to suggest a meetup and did she want to exchange facebook details.
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No, don't send that text at 9.

Wait till tomorrow if she hasn't replied tonight, really, 3 texts is too much if she hasn't replied.
 
Mugz said:
I'f I dont have a reply by 9pm then I'll send another text saying that maybe it was too soon to suggest a meetup and did she want to exchange facebook details.
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Probably best just to leave it up to her for now.

rockstar69 said:
The game playing can backfire at times and you do get the odd one that is a bit too good at it, not often, and if they are it means they're going to be a destroyer and your going to fall for them after, basic economics.
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Was that actual wisdom from Rockstar? 8o
 
Yeah, don't start talking about your interactions, you'll just come across as a knotted-up neurotic mess, true though that may be!

There'll be time for that later, when the two of you are in relationship counselling.
 
I've got an unreasonable super crush on this girl already, and I don't really know her too well other than a few emails and tons of texts, and her pics(no nudes, just really fall in love with a picture stlye pics) :D

I need to fight back my Mugz instincts to bombard with texts and take it slow.
 
Yeh Mugz, I'd just leave it until she replies back to you. Also don't apologise for suggesting a meet up, after all she's on a dating website to meet people. She's probably gonna reply back to you, and if she doesn't then I'd just move onto the next one. Any pestering of her is just gonna come across as being needy, and will only lower her opinion of you IMO
 
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