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One night stand or more??

Dodd456

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Long story short, last night I found myself involved with a girl I would have described to be out of my league prior to last night. Spent the night at her place, and it was incredible. We had sex 4 or 5 times and I was surprised by just how in sync we turned out to be sexually.

Upon leaving, I mentioned how we should do this again and she was decidedly coy, only smiling and not really confirming whether or not she was game. After this, however, while waiting for my cab, we made out PASSIONATELY(involved her biting on my lower lip and kissing my necK) for a good 4 to 5 minutes. She was massaging my cock through my pants the whole time.

I've been home now 12 hours or so, I sent two texts with no response. My question is, is this just a one time thing? Obviously what is confusing me is her behaivor while I waited for my cab in which she was all over me - this was far from a peck, and very much something she initiated. Normally I would have taken her evasive non-answering of my request to do it again as all I needed to hear, but man, the good-bye "kiss" in this case was so wild. What was she trying to get across?
 
I also should point out when I woke up this morning she was cuddled into me like a life raft. Legs over top of me and one arm across my neck.
 
nobody here can tell you what she's thinking...

why not wait a day or so and then give her a call? or give her a call tomorrow if you're really desperate. sending texts is so impersonal...

alasdair
 
Are you sure the sex was as good for her as it was for you?


Just curious, what in my post tipped you off that this was a possibility? I thought she enjoyed herself, evidenced by the fact that we did it a bunch of times. Even in the morning after waking up.

Close to a day now with still no text back :/
 
Wait it out. It could have gone either way. I don't know about this person's history. Does she have a boyfriend and was she cheating on him? Was she drunk or highly intoxicated and regretted it? I'm not saying these are logical, nor do I want to make you more concerned, but there are tons of things like this that could be possible.

It's only been "close to a day". Honestly maybe she's the type that doesn't reply to texts. There have been times that I haven't had a chance to text someone back. Maybe she had something really important today. An important exam, maybe an interview, a meeting. Perhaps she had to meet with her parents. I don't know. It's impossible to tell.
 
+1

She sounds badass but seeming needy is going to get you nowhere fast. Wait it out. Call her in a couple days.
 
yeah if she doesn't answer at all, let it go... if she is into it, she will come around. btw, I think texting her only a couple hours after the whole thing was probably not a good idea.
 
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