old rollers--wish I could find them !

[Fabio e's]

rolling past 30sh..

I am 26+10 and my wife unbelievably 40; we still roll once every month or so and effectively in London you could feel a bit like a fish out of the water.

At the end is all up in your soul, we are still 20sh at hearth;

NSFW:

but will be nice to know of any places in London with people that has a similar approach in our beautiful lives

 

[missing old pills]

Sometime I think I'm about 10 at heart

 

[not2old]

Sometime I think I'm about 10 at heart

I'm at 19, but feel like I'm going to mature a little this year

 

[squarerootof23]

This thread needs to be brought back to life.

I have this same wish, too (52 y.o. man). Well, not exactly the same wish. It seems most people participating in this thread are older people who already roll, but they are just looking for others their age to roll with.

Well, what if you have never rolled? How do you find people in that case? Help me out, I'm looking for ideas.

In this thread the only ideas I read were: music festivals, psy parties, and the Burning Man scene. But really - Should someone new to MDMA - who has never been to (nor knows how to find) a rave or festival or psy party or any kind of spontaneous combustion - just pick an event about which he has no clue whether it is what he should be looking at, and then go by himself, and..... then what?

Here is what I wish: Someone would say to me, Hey, I know your situation, I wish someone had taken me under his wing when I was in your situation, let's meet for coffee/drinks and we can talk.

Any advice/ideas would be great. Thanks in advance.

 

[llama112]

I have almost an opposite problem. I'm 20 and I find that almost everyone at the parties and stuff are older than me (late 20s and 30s are common). I suppose there are others my age but often times they are out to get as fucked up as possible and not really respecting mdma or using it in moderation and stuff.

I hang out with people of all ages - I have met and hung out with people in their 40s and 50s (haven't found someone at age 60 or older though! ).

@squarerootof23 - If you haven't rolled before and you don't know people who use, it will probably be difficult trying to get into the scene because people may think you're a cop. Just saying

 

[DirtyMexican]

I find a mdma of 125mg alone a 6 on a 1-10 scale. (<<<old rolls)

Mdma is more interesting with amph base and mda additive, more like an 8ish.

What does everyone else think?

 

[FunShineBear]

oh wow this thread is so nice for a youngster like me!!

rolling is such a spiritual happy thing! it never does anything apart from change how you look at things - and that changes everything!! kind of like growing up - some of my friends chose to grow up, but I never did!

This thread gives me so much hope, I'll never grow up! If I was to see you guys at a rave I'd totally give you some kandy! we can get old sk00l!

 

[squarerootof23]

Okay..... I'm glad things are going great for you young people. Really. But.....

I don't want the thrust of my post (message #24) to get lost - Specifically: What if (an older) person has never rolled? How do you find people in that case? Help me out, I'm looking for ideas.

(And if you young 'uns don't help me out with good ideas, I warn you, I'll die before you, and then I'll haunt you from my grave! )

 

[DirtyMexican]

Okay..... I'm glad things are going great for you young people. Really. But.....

I don't want the thrust of my post (message #24) to get lost - Specifically: What if (an older) person has never rolled? How do you find people in that case? Help me out, I'm looking for ideas.

(And if you young 'uns don't help me out with good ideas, I warn you, I'll die before you, and then I'll haunt you from my grave! )

Lol...

Do you have friends or know people that use other substances? If so these kinda things run in circles. Talk to them ask them if you have mutual friends. Network.

 

[webguy]

squareroot: I would be slow to try to meet up with it at a festival. The first time things should be predictable, a safe place. Later, yes, festivals... if that's the kind of thing you like. But to get to your question, if you smoke, you might try bringing it up with whoever your connection is. If you don't, maybe start dating younger people who seem a little wild.

Just go slow finding the right scene.

 

[squarerootof23]

Lol...

Do you have friends or know people that use other substances? If so these kinda things run in circles. Talk to them ask them if you have mutual friends. Network.

No, I do not. (That's one sad face because, well, that's part of the problem I'm facing, I have no such contacts/network to tap into; and, one happy face because I'm happy for all my friends that they're very happy being completely drug-free!)

 

[squarerootof23]

squareroot: I would be slow to try to meet up with it at a festival. The first time things should be predictable, a safe place. Later, yes, festivals... if that's the kind of thing you like. But to get to your question, if you smoke, you might try bringing it up with whoever your connection is. If you don't, maybe start dating younger people who seem a little wild.

Just go slow finding the right scene.

Thanks webguy. Yes, I completely agree about going slow and starting in a safe and predictable place. That's what I'm trying to find.

I do not smoke.

Regarding the dating idea - again, thanks for trying to come up with suggestions. But - My wife might think differently about that!

Any other thoughts?????

 

[ChronicHD]

I find a mdma of 125mg alone a 6 on a 1-10 scale. (<<<old rolls)

Mdma is more interesting with amph base and mda additive, more like an 8ish.

What does everyone else think?

I 100% agree. Molly is not uppity enough for me. It makes me content (in a great way) with whatever I am doing. But when I take good, quality mints I absolutely need to be dancing in a huge crowd.

Thanks webguy. Yes, I completely agree about going slow and starting in a safe and predictable place. That's what I'm trying to find.

I do not smoke.

Regarding the dating idea - again, thanks for trying to come up with suggestions. But - My wife might think differently about that!

Any other thoughts?????

If you go to a (hopefully multi-day) festival and just act like a nice guy and talk to people (but actually get to know them, don't just say "can I have drugs") you should be able to find something. It is all about how you ask/the way you come off to people. I would definitely be skeptical of someone ALOT older than me, but if I actually talked to them and got to know them then it would be different. I'd say try to meet a few people at a festival and don't try to buy anything until AFTER it's over, that shows them that you aren't a cop trying to make a bust, but someone who actually wants to bring product home with him. Use your head and you can figure something out. Or just ask a younger person to source some for you and pay them a nice tip.

 

[squarerootof23]

If you go to a (hopefully multi-day) festival and just act like a nice guy and talk to people (but actually get to know them, don't just say "can I have drugs") you should be able to find something. It is all about how you ask/the way you come off to people. I would definitely be skeptical of someone ALOT older than me, but if I actually talked to them and got to know them then it would be different. I'd say try to meet a few people at a festival and don't try to buy anything until AFTER it's over, that shows them that you aren't a cop trying to make a bust, but someone who actually wants to bring product home with him. Use your head and you can figure something out. Or just ask a younger person to source some for you and pay them a nice tip.

Thanks for the response, I appreciate it. And yes, I can understand that people would think I'm a cop - yet another hurdle I have to deal with.

Just to be clear, though.... My question is *NOT* about how to obtain MDMA. My question is about how to find *PEOPLE* in my area who would befriend me who are familiar with MDMA.

The title of this thread includes the clause, "... wish I could find them [old rollers]", not "... wish I could find it [MDMA]".

 

[Bsiren]

The obstacle is that "young" MDMA users (I say "young", because I see people of all ages at events and clubs here) are social and public, older MDMA users tend to use MDMA privately with their partner or in a small group of friends.

I think at events it's not assumed you're a cop if you're merely friendly and alone- it's assumed you're a cop if you stand uncomfortably next to someone and all you have to say is "yo got any pills to sell?"- Cops generally don't want to socialize. They also tend to walk around and scope out everyone, rather than seem like they're (naturally) feeling a bit self aware of being older than the crowd. If you were at an event by yourself, but relaxed a bit, and had a skill (dancing, gloving, light stringing etc.), you'll naturally make friends. Perhaps not as easily as a hot 19 year old girl in fuzzy boots, but in general raves and EDM events are pretty accepting and friendly.

 

[oldskoolroller]

Just to be clear, though.... My question is *NOT* about how to obtain MDMA. My question is about how to find *PEOPLE* in my area who would befriend me who are familiar with MDMA.

Do you like music? Given any thought to playing instruments,djing,or produceing your own tracks? If you can find an activity like any of these you will find like minded people that also like the other things that want to do. Just go make friends,eventually you will find someone that can help/hang out with you. Just a thought....

 

[squarerootof23]

Do you like music? Given any thought to playing instruments,djing,or produceing your own tracks? If you can find an activity like any of these you will find like minded people that also like the other things that want to do. Just go make friends,eventually you will find someone that can help/hang out with you. Just a thought....

Interesting idea.... Sure, I like music. I'm going to have to think about your suggestions. At this time, I know nothing about being a DJ, or producing tracks. But, I'm not opposed to looking into that.

I do have other interests: Right now I'm on a softball team, but so far I can't see bringing this topic up with them. (The team is part of a church league. )

 

[DirtyMexican]

I 100% agree. Molly is not uppity enough for me. It makes me content (in a great way) with whatever I am doing. But when I take good, quality mints I absolutely need to be dancing in a huge crowd.



If you go to a (hopefully multi-day) festival and just act like a nice guy and talk to people (but actually get to know them, don't just say "can I have drugs") you should be able to find something. It is all about how you ask/the way you come off to people. I would definitely be skeptical of someone ALOT older than me, but if I actually talked to them and got to know them then it would be different. I'd say try to meet a few people at a festival and don't try to buy anything until AFTER it's over, that shows them that you aren't a cop trying to make a bust, but someone who actually wants to bring product home with him. Use your head and you can figure something out. Or just ask a younger person to source some for you and pay them a nice tip.

Sounds like we need a seperate thread about it... Lol..

 

[squarerootof23]

Sounds like we need a seperate thread about it... Lol..

Yeah, probably: One thread for how to find the people, and the other on how to find the MDMA. Although - I'm new to Bluelight, my understanding is that the BLUA requires us not to post stuff about how to find MDMA (or any drug), so starting that thread might be a problem.

Anyway, first things first for me. I need to find the people first. I've never used MDMA (or any drug), but I have to believe that it is like anything in life - the people come first, it is the people that provide the true joy, everything else either helps enhance that or works against that.

Hey DirtyMexican, I have a question for you. In an earlier post, you suggested that I attend a (multi-day) festival. Can you give me examples of such festivals? Then I can look at the web sites and get a feel for the kind of festivals I should be considering. Right now I don't know even that much, I've never been to a music festival of any kind. Also, would you say that the people at these festivals are pretty friendly, or do they tend to stick to their own cliques? I ask this second question because it may be possible that I'd have to go alone to something like this, since I don't know anyone who would be interested in going with me, all my family and friends would poop a purple brick if I suggested such an activity to them.

 

[DirtyMexican]

Yeah, probably: One thread for how to find the people, and the other on how to find the MDMA. Although - I'm new to Bluelight, my understanding is that the BLUA requires us not to post stuff about how to find MDMA (or any drug), so starting that thread might be a problem.

Anyway, first things first for me. I need to find the people first. I've never used MDMA (or any drug), but I have to believe that it is like anything in life - the people come first, it is the people that provide the true joy, everything else either helps enhance that or works against that.

Hey DirtyMexican, I have a question for you. In an earlier post, you suggested that I attend a (multi-day) festival. Can you give me examples of such festivals? Then I can look at the web sites and get a feel for the kind of festivals I should be considering. Right now I don't know even that much, I've never been to a music festival of any kind. Also, would you say that the people at these festivals are pretty friendly, or do they tend to stick to their own cliques? I ask this second question because it may be possible that I'd have to go alone to something like this, since I don't know anyone who would be interested in going with me, all my family and friends would poop a purple brick if I suggested such an activity to them.

I am actually in Cancun and have been back here for years.We have open air raves in Tulum, Playa del Carmen, and of course in Cancun. The seen is different based on your location. I grew up in the east coast of the US up state area... Different world.

I think there is a general discussion area where you can ask whom all in your state/provence. Stick around and you will make some of the best friends you ever had on the boards.

First board I joined was in about 2000. A steroid forum. I still have friends from that board to this day.

Oh and here

Dont feel frustraited. It is about the journey not the distination.