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Not Sure How to Respond

The only reason I say ignore is because I don't know if he's the type to go on and on about theories of polyamorous relationships. I'm sure everyone knows the type. They usually come in the pothead persuasion and instead of just being cool with the answer, he will want to "debate" the issue when Munki is just plain not interested and doesn't want to argue about it.

Or maybe I've dealt with just too many potheads in my time. lol
 
Lysis said:
The only reason I say ignore is because I don't know if he's the type to go on and on about theories of polyamorous relationships. I'm sure everyone knows the type. They usually come in the pothead persuasion and instead of just being cool with the answer, he will want to "debate" the issue when Munki is just plain not interested and doesn't want to argue about it.

Or maybe I've dealt with just too many potheads in my time. lol
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this made me laugh because the biggest hoebags i know are potheads

the message for me is weird enough to suggest hints of delusion so ignoring is best because the deluded are not all that logical and being polite matters not. speaking as an ex deluded mofo. other side of the coin. dont respond
 
i agree with those who say to not ignore this. you need to tell him unequivocally that you are not interested and, if you want, tell him to never ask again. i wouldn't worry too much about being polite with your reply (at the cost of clarity). tell him clearly and firmly "no".

i also think you should share this with your partner and show him that you're not interested and you've made that clear to this guy.

alasdair
 
pofacedhoe said:
this made me laugh because the biggest hoebags i know are potheads

the message for me is weird enough to suggest hints of delusion so ignoring is best because the deluded are not all that logical and being polite matters not. speaking as an ex deluded mofo. other side of the coin. dont respond
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lol I knew someone would understand. The "blah blah but but dude you're so not in touch with life and freedom blah blah blah" when really I just want the guy/girl to STFU and listen to the words that are coming out of my mouth..don't care and I said "no."
 
I would just be like "Bro, like seriously desperation and brutally obtuse pick up attempts are not hot or appealing, regardless of if one is mono or poly or anything else. Wrong: It is how you are doing it. 0 out of infinity."
 
Make it short and tell him you're happily in a monogamous relationship. Do you have craigslist where you live?

Reason I asked is because I posted an ad for selling my car. This morning I have 5 responses in my spam box.
All women looking to hook up, including some half-naked photos. WTF?
 
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