Hiya Thago - and welcome to the site.
There are a lot of sub-forums that may be of interest to you.
Other Drugs, the recovery forums (The Dark Side, Sober Living and Mental Health) to name a few.
Please familiarise yourself with the rule (known as BLUA or Bluelight User Agreement) in order to protect you as well as the site and please feel free to ask the BL Ambassadors, moderators or admins with any questions concerning the rules or any concerning the site, for instance, how to navigate it n so forth.
You may also be interested to look at the sub-forum, announcements to know which moderators, senior moderators, and administrators deal with which particular sub-forum. These are also listed under the sub-forums themselves but at present a few members have had promotions so check at the bottom of the posts to see when the post was last updated or against, contact the necessary leaders.
At the top of this current sub-forum, New Members Introduction (NMI), there are a few stickies. One is titled "Adoption Programme" which is basically a programme in which current members agree to befriend new members to help them settle into the site better. If this interests you, please put a post in that thread saying that you are interested and the administrator, Bronson, will list you as a member wishing to be adopted. A good idea is to briefly mention your interests concerning joining the site so that a member with similar interests can offer to "adopt" you.
Enjoy your enjoy here. BL is an ace community where people are friendly, supportive and empathic as well as knowing when to have a laugh and a banter.
Take care,
Evey