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newly single....out of practice!..HELP!!!

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Monkey16

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I havent been with someone new in 4 yrs....i just broke up with my bf about 2 months ago....I'm not ready for ne thing serious...but I am ready to get back in the game..the causal game of course....but even before i met my bf (not x douhcebag bf lol)....I was still really shy when it came to that..like I couldnt make the first move..but at least I was smooth and could handle myself....but now..I have no idea wat to do.....I met this guy...we like each other..and he knows my situation...hes a total gentlemen....but i;m so out of it i have no idea wat to do when i'm around him lol....can you guys give me some tips on how to get back into the swing of things?? I feel so out of place and so eeeeee i guess lol...hard to explain....ne thing will help...and i am taking things slow....baby steps....ne thing will help....thanx!!! much love <3
 
well, girls should have the easy part.. you usually just stand and smile and at some point you have to say, yes I will like to go and have diner with you... it's not too bad at all :) Just relax...

in my opinion, a girl shouldn't have to do the first steps.. EVER... or u might just end up with a loser...
 
What exactly do you want to happen? Your question is kind of vague. Are you talking about the physical part of the relationship? The emotional part? Activities to do together? Is this guy officially your boyfriend? Are you committed to one another? If you're not then the title seems a little heavy.

You gotta shed a bit more light on the situation.
 
It's a lot easier for women.

Step 1: Go out to a place people socialize, like a bar, club, diner, coffee shop, etc.

Step 2: Stand or sit around and make eye contact more than once with anyone you would like to approach you.

Step 3: Wait.

Since you already found a guy, all you really have to do is spend time with him and he'll do the rest.
 
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Be confident. Have fun. If you like this guy, just take it slow, be casual. Hang out with him. Be a bit flirty!
 
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