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Need some serious advise on this please

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drfeelgood1

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This girl has a crush on me at work and we started hanging out recently and stuff and having dinner together and lunch.
But the problem is with me. I said something foolish that I live alone but I live with my Mother. But she does not know this.

I explained to my Mom that she is coming over for a glass of wine with me and she said to me that she will go somewhere else during that time..

Any of you all have better excuses? Should i cancel the invitation and make up something?

Please help.

I feel very sick to my stomach for saying this to her in the first place. I just felt embarassed and shamed.
 
Well I'm sure she'll notice that something's up when she gets there. So I'd probably tell her first. It's really not a big deal, more people are choosing to live with family these days to keep costs down.
 
Just tell her the truth. You might be surprised at her reaction. I highly recommend you don`t make up more stories. It will just be harder and harder to come clean.
 
If she had told you she lived alone and then charmingly yet sheepishly explained she had told a white lie to impress you, would you reject her? It's no biggie. And your mum sounds cool enough to give you space in the future.

Unless you're 40.
 
Tell her ASAP. Hopefully she's cool with it, but if I were her, I'd wonder what else you were lying about lol.
 
It's not a big deal. Honesty is higher on my list than something trivial such as living with family. And as stated before, your mom seems to be pretty relaxed and understanding if she's willing to take off for a bit while you have company.
 
Delivery is everything.

This is not a big deal but your delivery in relaying your mistake to her is.
 
This could work in your favor. Move all your moms stuff from her room into your room, and all your stuff into her room (assuming it's bigger) then mess it up a little to make it appear lived in. Remove all the family photos from the house etc and swap or hide everything that reeks of an older females touch, opting for plain items you would expect to see in a young males house (no frilly tablecloths etc).

Then, when she comes around, have your mother introduce herself as a woman who lost everything she owned to a fraudster ex-husband, and that you stepped in and kept her off the street. All she has to do is cook and clean. Get her to say you're too modest to admit how much of a hero you are, so you kept it from her, but you literally saved her life. This chick will think she's found the best guy in the world and you will hopefully get to have sex in your moms bed.

Later down the track if things get serious you can just fabricate more lies about how you were contacted by a distant relative that you'd never met, and it turns out she was your biological mother all along and that explains the bond you felt when you first asked her to live with you. Once that's out in the open, you can shamelessly look this girl in the eye when you say you live with your mother.
 
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I'd straight up tell her the truth. You were in the moment and perhaps felt embarrassed so you told a little white lie.

You'd be surprised, she might think its admirable of you for telling the truth and coming clean. This could work in your favor.
 
Ltp, are you a spy or something? That might explain how you came up with such an elaborate story. Back on topic: someone said earlier, you were caught up in the moment and told a little white lie. I've done it and had to explain my self; it's not too awkward.
 
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