Need Some Quick Help Please

[dek]

Hey everyone,

So I've been dating this girl for a little over 2 months and it's been going great until recently, I could really use some advice on where to go from here.

For the sake of brevity, i'll cut to the chase. Yesterday my girlfriend was over and she seemed really distant and so I asked he if she was mad at me or something and I think I came across as insecure because since then she has been somewhat avoiding me and I can just tell im my gut that what happened yesterday may potentially be detrimental to our relationship. As ive been told, being insecure about a relationship is very unattractive, so what can I do here to fix this?

Thanks

 

[Teabag Johnny]

Mmmmm, the best thing I could think of is take her out on a really fun date... Maybe like the water park or something. Try something adventurous When she's in a good mood, it'll be easier to talk to her. Since you guys only be dating for two months, I wouldn't go into too much detail so quick and... Being too needy early on can be unattractive for a lot of women, but some girls like it. It may depend on how much she cares for you.

I guess you have to use a push & pull technique with her. You kind of have to gauge off of her vibe. She could have been just in a bad mood and didn't feel like talking. I know if you ask your girlfriend if they're mad at you, you'll usually won't get much of a response.

Every girl is different, so you'll have to figure out the best way to communicate with her. I'm sure a lot of women on this forum can give you much better advice than I can. It's good that you care about her you're concerned about her feelings. A lot of girls don't get that from their boyfriends.

 

[llama112]

Everyone is different and it's really hard to tell, especially this early in a relationship.
There could be MANY reasons.
Maybe she was in a bad mood because something else happened, unrelated to you.

Instead of saying "are you mad at me", say something like "are you okay,you seem a little sad today, is there anything I can do for you" or something along the lines of that. Because you want to know what's wrong.

Being insecure isn't great but something like that shouldn't make a huge difference.