My wife let the other man do things that I have only been able to ask??

[dus_aster]

^Damn dude reading between the lines I get the feeling you have trouble pleasing a woman.

Also kinda sexist and off topic as I am being.

I just realized this guy made this thread as part of his cuckold fetish and we are reinforcing it fo sho at least imho.

He only responded to the people talking shit to him so I think he likes the situation and wants to hear what a loser he is.

...or he had an upsetting experience that he doesn't feel equipped to handle and posted about it in the hopes of gaining some useful feedback (sure, there was perhaps the desire for self affirmation on one level or another, but jfc it sounds like /you're/ reading too far into things.)
He opened up and someone was an insensitive dick; his retort was honestly somewhat understandable (not the most eloquent retort, but understandable nonetheless)
Stop trying to rip apart the guy, he just went through a traumatic sexual experience :s

...but also yo, no hate, your earlier post about taking her on a date and trying to start anew is super good advice imo/ime
It's always better to not default to the burning of bridges

That being said
OP the way you're talking about double gender standards comes across as sexist; what she did was selfish and very fucking rude/inconsiderate/hurtful, and it's unfortunate that you haven't received a lot of sympathy irl, but it's hardly a reflection of male/female/other responsibility dynamics in all other relationships or of societal treatment of men who feel cheated.
It sounds like maybe you and her should try going to even just one or two couples councilling sessions?


Just my two cents, man; I'm sorry that happened, and appreciate the cautionary tale

 

[nuttynutskin]

C'mon guys, this is so obviously a troll attempt. Like the op was listening to his wife have rough sex with another guy from the kitchen? Right. 8(

 

[pofacedhoe]

OP

you deleted your previous thread on the exact same topic. the exact word used for deleting the thread was resolved. and you expect us to believe you let the exact same scenario happen again? pretty implausible

so on that note stop posting the same thing over and over thank you