My poor mother

This year has been full of disappointments for my mother regarding me. March she found out about my 3 years of smoking weed, two weeks ago she found one of my bottles of cough syrup and about 20 minutes ago she found out I put spacers in my ears. The hole is small as fuck so I don't know why she's so angry. They will close if I took the spacers out. She said "you have to be cool and follow everyone else" But thats exactly it. I'm not following everyone else. Thats why i have them. O well. She'll get over it.