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My Man's Manscaping is Irritating and NOT Nice to Touch:(

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abskipper

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I love my man but he is preoccupied with, and insists on always "manscaping". I guess it's more visually appealing but it really sucks for me in bed because he doesn't shave it so it's completely smooth, he just trims it and his pube and leg hairs are extremely coarse in the first place - his pubic area and upper legs (he messes with his upper leg hair too because his pants fit better that way) scratch and irritate the heck out of my sensitive skin when we have sex, and it takes away the pleasure for me, especially when his hair is very sharp. I've talked to him about it many times but he said he doesn't like the way he looks with more hair down there, and that it's coarse no matter what. Like I said before, it feels horrible when we have sex:(
 
Maybe he can put conditioner on them when he showers. Why doesn't he shave?
 
Sounds like if he's not considerate for your needs , he might need an ultimatum. If he's more concerned about looks than your comfort then his selfishness should be reciprocated. Lawyered.
 
Can you try to compromise on the length of the hair? The 1/4 inch attachment on clippers cut short enough for things to be neat, and just long enough for the hair not to be spiky. Maybe he really does have thinker hair though, but I'm sure that you two can find the length at which it stops being irritating.
 
So... he trims it without shaving it completely? That's... interesting.

See, I'm into the whole "manscaping" thing, but I prefer to just shave it all off completely.

You should cook him breakfast, and just sort of nonchalantly ask him whether he prefers just a bit of pubic hair or no pubic hair at all. He'll exclaim, "Why, just a bit of pubic hair, of course!" To which you might reply, "Then that's just what you'll get!" before cutting a lock of it off your snapper and garnishing his eggs with it.

Don't mind me...
 
Just ask him to completely shave it all off before you guys have sex. It doesn't really matter how he thinks it looks in my opinion. He already has landed someone that finds him attractive and cares for him. He should care about what YOU think of his pubes, not himself.
 
Usually I don't go for ultimatums, but if it does hurt you like that, you definitely need to stop. So stop having sex, or at least less often, tell him it's uncomfortable and it hurts. Then he should figure out something to do.
 
if it feels horrible, stop having sex with him. Withdraw the pussy and he will bow, or walk.

It's simple - you'vve talked it over before, and he's being a narcissist about it, bit of a poof really, but that's his shit - just cut off his allowance and tell him why, and he will stop trimming it to stupid lengths. When he gets annoying in trying to havve sex with you, just make a compomise on length, and where he trims/shaves if you can.
 
Okay, so you have a few options:

1) No more manscaping whatsoever.
2) Shave all the way.
3) Wax.
4) Conditioner.
5) Leave the hair a little longer so it's not so spikey.

Pick which one you like or let him pick. If he isn't inclined to pick one and actually do it, you have a few options for persuading him as well.

1) No sex until he deals with his pubic hair appropriately.
2) Refuse to trim or shave your pubic hair until he does.
3) Tell him it's you or the pubic hair, he needs to pick one you'll dump him.

You don't have to realllyyyy do these things, the threat of it alone should persuade him.
 
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