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My man wants to watch me have sex with other men

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Unbreakable said:
Buddy where did i say Only gay or bi... Do not get me wrong, people who do enjoy this do exist prob... but not one i met
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Well there you have it, you just haven't met one yet...they are out there.

What straight men would pick a MMF over a FFM?
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Because it isn't always about pleasing oneself, but the other person. If it is a girl's fantasy to be fucked by more than one guy, who am I to deny her this fantasy? (unless she was my GF, then I would consider it cheating)


Only Gay men, Bi men, Bi Curious men, or is a men who might be "straight" and just into the idea of another penis in his women that is the whole "bull thing"
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I put emphasis on "his" woman. I agree that it's fucked up to watch some other dude fuck "his" woman. I NEVER did a MFM with a GF, only with girls that were fuck-buddies and nothing more. I would never let another guy fuck a girl I cared about.

I now understand what you were saying, I just wanted to clear the air. I no longer think you're a homophobe.
 
Jerry Atrick said:
Because it isn't always about pleasing oneself, but the other person. If it is a girl's fantasy to be fucked by more than one guy, who am I to deny her this fantasy? (unless she was my GF, then I would consider it cheating)


I put emphasis on "his" woman. I agree that it's fucked up to watch some other dude fuck "his" woman. I NEVER did a MFM with a GF, only with girls that were fuck-buddies and nothing more. I would never let another guy fuck a girl I cared about.

I now understand what you were saying, I just wanted to clear the air. I no longer think you're a homophobe.
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But dude i understand if the girl is like yo i want this i find it sexy, DP ME... and whatever but this DUDE is the one asking for the girl to do it or "think about"... its HIS idea not hers.... Therefore he wants it... Not her "Fantasy" but his....


btw OP can you tell me what the outcome of this is? i do have money on it...


He is either bi-curious or His just into watching other men fuck you....
Only way to tell is to have the 3 sum act like you dont care, see what he does with the other dude... and make your own opinion on why he wanted another man in the room fucking you... simple if you ask me... or have a gay guy hit on him... and see what the other gay dude tells you... :Sneak attack:
 
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This is a pretty common fantasy. In fact there are many porno's that play out this fantasy :)
 
the strangest thing i encountered over the years as far as this topic goes at least lol, is a guy, the one and only i ever have talked to or met that the thought alone of girl on girl sex disgusts him and turns him off completely.. every other guy i have met love the idea though.. and this guys completely straight..well, that i am aware of..
 
So a MFF 3sum does not have to include Girl on girl action...

How can a guy want a MMF over a MFF is beyond me... Not unless he wants another penis in his view...
because i am straight and i don't want a penis anywhere near me esp if i am am naked and fucking a girl.

Girls can touch you only and only you
the options are endless

Trust me i know...i have been in a couple where no girl on girl contact was done... It is possible
 
Yes, and in a MMF threesome, it is possible that there is no male/male contact. Some guys really want to watch their girl have sex with another man and partake once in a while. There is nothing homosexual about that.

Unbreakable, we get that you're straight. Seriously, but please knock it off with your underlying homophobic tones. Consider that your warning.
 
I honestly find mmf to be more of a male in control then woman in control, you really can't do much with a cock in your mouth and in your ass
.. its more degrading then sensual like ffm

By the way it is also called DP double penetration

I've seen plenty of dp and I don't see the girl being pleaseed gentley, but instead with two big cocks in her hand getting gaged to death, and fucked the shits outta off.

but hey ppl are into there own things.
. But like other above poster I personally find it disrespectfull if my boyfriend who I love wants to see me get gagged by two other guys .
 
Jerry Atrick said:
Back in my undergrad days (more than 10 years ago) my friends and I used to do MFMs all the time, but it was usually with a girl none of us really liked that much :D When I eventually found a hot girl that I was into, one of my friends asked if we could do a MFM with her and I said, "Hell no!:X" I actually liked the girl and didn't want to share. We ended up being together for a couple of years, had great sex, and never brought other people into our relationship.
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I had a great laugh at this post! Haha made my day really.

OP its pretty common online, but I didn't really meet anyone who actually wanted to do this. If you don't want to though, don't.
 
Tessa Lynn has knowledge far beyond her years. Tessa, you are now officially my go to girl for fetishes and obscure sexual trivia. Can you shed any light on wtf they are up to over there in Japan...
 
I've often fantasized about my wife with other men, but that is all it is, just a fantasy.
 
This usually has nothing to do with being gay to any extent. There are two categories most men with this kink loosely fall into:

1) Active, sometimes dominant men who are usually in a relationship where both partners are swingers. He's usually in control and the female is often submissive and fucks who she's told to and enjoys being a filthy little slut for her Dom. The male will usually be an active participant in the MFM and this is not usually a 24/7 thing but rather a kink that's enjoyed at swinger clubs and private parties. The sex usually is not allowed to develop into meaningful relationships. This is the more accepted type by mainstream culture since there is no inherent conflict between the roles played by the male and female and the traditional view of masculine dominance and feminine submissiveness.

2)Passive, sometimes submissive men who derive masochistic pleasure from their partner to some extent replacing their sexual rights within the relationship with the services of another more dominant "alpha" male. The cuckold is usually faithful to the often more dominant female and often encourages her to exert control over his sexuality, sometimes allowing her to lock his invariably diminutive organ in a chastity device as a symbol of his complete surrender. The female is usually in control of who, when and where she fucks and sometimes the cuckold never actually gets to witness the coupling but has his curiosity and frustration managed during sometimes protracted tease and denial sessions when he is uncaged once a month or whenever his mistress decides to indulge her cuckold. I suspect that this is the more common fetish; however, due to much of the eroticism in this case arising from the transgressive and perverting drive towards a kind of subversion of traditional roles and values it remains strictly unrecognised and wholly unacceptable to mainstream society and before the anonymity conferred by the internet unknown and largely unexpressed except within very intimate relationships.

I find it interesting that a question such as this asking how common is a sexual inclination of some sort could never before have been answered with anything other than a personal subjective and probably very biased view. Now though we can actually begin to make scientific progress with the help of the illuminating data gathering work such as that carried out by the authors of this tome
 
I believe you need to ask yourself if,
1) does that wish bother you?, 2) is your relationship strong enough to confront possible detours?, 3) are you up to this, 4) what sort of companion would you wish to have in the future (what do you expect from him after)?, and, just the normal expectations like, is it always going to be like that.
If you are willing to accept this terms, that might be okay. It´s all about compromise, IMO
 
traybuck said:
Why are you guys answering 4 year old threads???
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I suspect that the majority of a thread's utility is in the value it provides to readers other than the OP and is therefore related to the relevance of the subject matter as it pertains to the Zeitgeist of the day which is arguably greater now than 4 years ago as can be readily verified by looking up "cuckold" as a search term in google trends.
 
bulon said:
I suspect that the majority of a thread's utility is in the value it provides to readers other than the OP and is therefore related to the relevance of the subject matter as it pertains to the Zeitgeist of the day which is arguably greater now than 4 years ago as can be readily verified by looking up "cuckold" as a search term in google trends.
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Bingo. For a new guy, you're alright. So, I feel obliged to preserve your unmolested, pristine soul from the dangers that slither sub rosa and undulate unseen.

You're not like the numb nuts and unenlightened dolts of which this forum is replete and seems to have an inexhaustible reservoir somewhere. While the Earth gets purloined of its oil, depleted of its ozone, robbed of its resources— one thing it disembogues with no abatement and exudes profusely is cunts, cretins, and kooks. The bulk of whom gravitate to this forum like stars to a black hole, where these grotesque bumpkins and boors quickly congeal and coagulate like a pudding of desiccated diarrhea. Too commonly, these ornery and odious organisms slowly drip fetid stalactite-like, viscous globules of malodorous mucilage known euphemistically as "comments" or "posts".

They void themselves of this gelatinous ordure regularly. Some of this putrid matter may splash onto you on occasion. This, we term a "reply". My advice to you: do not sling, fling, or swing their sordid filth back at them with a response. This goop is contagious, and if you toss it at the tossers, they will only toss more until you're cloaked in it, like an inescapable epoxy resin unable to be removed . You're now infected with their contagious feculence, and have joined them in their putrid jello of a coterie. Treat them like ebola and only engage these creatures whilst adorning a full level A HAZMAT suit and high quality self-contained breathing apparatus. You have been warned.

Now that I'm old enough (4 years hence, I was a mere minor, being only 17, and all explicit sex was explicitly illict), but now that I've come of age, may I, OP, facilitate in the fulfillment of your husband's fantasy? That is to say, may we fornicate and fuck in front of your fellow's focused and feasting eyes to satisfy his fetish? I wouldn't like it one bit, but the better angels of my nature wouldn't want to not help a housewife and her husband in need, you see.
 
I wouldn't want a woman I was intimate to do that.

That being said there are several factors at play.

First off do you really want this?

Second do you think this will change the dynamic of your relationship?

Third do you think that either you or her will regret it?

Fourth to do you think that if this is something one of you regrets you can move past it and turn the whole thing off?

I would say if this is some sort of requirement to keep the relationship together than you have a great deal of questions to ask yourself. I do know sometimes when you introduce other sexual partners into your relationships things can get messy for any of the parties involved.

So I suppose ask yourself about a few things such as various outcomes, what you get out of it, are you doing this for him and if so are you ok with that, and if it is something you can handle if shit hits the fan for either one of you.

I suppose that when you take a long term relationship that has been relatively monogamous and change that to a more open relationship you might want to set down some boundaries. I suppose the most hurtful affair is one of the heart and that should always be taken into consideration.

I have had open relationships and threesomes mff (I am a man btw). I was always able to handle things but often I did see jealousy as a factor.

I really could only try to guess at or emphasize with your situation. I do believe it is some sort of jealousy fetish or maybe he wants other men to find you attractive or possibly some bi sexual tendencies.

As a straight man I can tell you I would never ever want to watch a woman I was intimate with have sex with another man or even have her tell me about the details even in an open relationship. When I was in open relationships I never wanted to know anything about who my partner was sleeping with other than me and I never talked about the other women. I did have a few women who really seemed to want to know who my other partners where but when I told them it usually pissed them off. But that is why you should never agree to something you can't handle. I wrote this last part as an example of what happens in these sort of things even thought your situation is a bit different.
 
dopemaster said:
I wouldn't want a woman I was intimate to do that.

That being said there are several factors at play.

First off do you really want this?

Second do you think this will change the dynamic of your relationship?

Third do you think that either you or her will regret it?

Fourth to do you think that if this is something one of you regrets you can move past it and turn the whole thing off?

I would say if this is some sort of requirement to keep the relationship together than you have a great deal of questions to ask yourself. I do know sometimes when you introduce other sexual partners into your relationships things can get messy for any of the parties involved.

So I suppose ask yourself about a few things such as various outcomes, what you get out of it, are you doing this for him and if so are you ok with that, and if it is something you can handle if shit hits the fan for either one of you.

I suppose that when you take a long term relationship that has been relatively monogamous and change that to a more open relationship you might want to set down some boundaries. I suppose the most hurtful affair is one of the heart and that should always be taken into consideration.

I have had open relationships and threesomes mff (I am a man btw). I was always able to handle things but often I did see jealousy as a factor.

I really could only try to guess at or emphasize with your situation. I do believe it is some sort of jealousy fetish or maybe he wants other men to find you attractive or possibly some bi sexual tendencies.

As a straight man I can tell you I would never ever want to watch a woman I was intimate with have sex with another man or even have her tell me about the details even in an open relationship. When I was in open relationships I never wanted to know anything about who my partner was sleeping with other than me and I never talked about the other women. I did have a few women who really seemed to want to know who my other partners where but when I told them it usually pissed them off. But that is why you should never agree to something you can't handle. I wrote this last part as an example of what happens in these sort of things even thought your situation is a bit different.
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This!
 
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