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voxmystic

voxmystic

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He's super butch, though, and, so far, hasn't found anyone that he doesn't feel topish with. We already have some swinging experience, so on a party night, I'm thinking of just blindfolding him, so that it's only a cock, not a face/body. He's never done anything gay before, but he's very curious. Would this work to fulfill his fantasy, or should we wait until we meet someone who makes him feel like being on the bottom? We could be waiting a loooong time....
 
Mmmh. I'd recommend you ask him about it before doing anything like blindfolding him and introducing him to a situation like that - it could go very badly if he's not expecting it I think. Have you not had a discussion about making that fantasy come true before? A threesome might also be a better setting if you would be up to that, since it might make your boyfriend/husband feel more comfortable with the experience if you're there as well.
 
If I were y'all, I'd wait until the right guy came along. Why settle?
 
Pagey said:
Mmmh. I'd recommend you ask him about it before doing anything like blindfolding him and introducing him to a situation like that - it could go very badly if he's not expecting it I think. Have you not had a discussion about making that fantasy come true before? A threesome might also be a better setting if you would be up to that, since it might make your boyfriend/husband feel more comfortable with the experience if you're there as well.
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Oh, we've discussed it extensively.... I've told him about the blindfold scenario, and it turned him on, but it was fantasy. Pillow talk. It might be disturbing in reality. And, we have always talked about it as a threesome. Until you mentioned it, I hadn't really thought about it happening any other way lol
 
this thread is kinda horny. whats the rush?

also is he going to have a gay experience on his own with your permission or are you as a couple going to have a threesome where anything goes?
 
voxmystic said:
He's super butch, though, and, so far, hasn't found anyone that he doesn't feel topish with. We already have some swinging experience, so on a party night, I'm thinking of just blindfolding him, so that it's only a cock, not a face/body. He's never done anything gay before, but he's very curious. Would this work to fulfill his fantasy, or should we wait until we meet someone who makes him feel like being on the bottom? We could be waiting a loooong time....
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You won't - if he really wants it, you can manifest it very easily, just go to a club, or craiglist, or xhamster has a dating section where you can meet fuck buddies - the options are endless, you just have to find the right one for you.
 
voxmystic said:
He's super butch, though, and, so far, hasn't found anyone that he doesn't feel topish with. We already have some swinging experience, so on a party night, I'm thinking of just blindfolding him, so that it's only a cock, not a face/body. He's never done anything gay before, but he's very curious. Would this work to fulfill his fantasy, or should we wait until we meet someone who makes him feel like being on the bottom? We could be waiting a loooong time....
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Mmm, I'd not go with that...fully informed consent is kind of really important. (Both to a persons own well being, and to everyone else's legal well being) and being blindfolded and getting fucked by some more or less arbitrary person doesn't really meet that standard imo.
 
pofacedhoe said:
this thread is kinda horny. whats the rush?
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You noticed that, huh? That's what happens when two years' worth of hormones comes crashing in all at once. I was pregnant and breastfeeding. And for all that time when I had no sexual feelings, my sweetie waited for me. He didnt have to, but he did. Now that I feel like myself again, I'm kinda anxious to make up for lost time, I guess.

also is he going to have a gay experience on his own with your permission or are you as a couple going to have a threesome where anything goes?
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Either would be fine, but we've only discussed it in the context of a threesome.

B1tO'RoughJack said:
You won't - if he really wants it, you can manifest it very easily, just go to a club, or craiglist, or xhamster has a dating section where you can meet fuck buddies - the options are endless, you just have to find the right one for you.
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This is something we are looking into. Our location presents a bit of a problem (rural Alaskan island), but we'd be willing to travel a little for the right party.
 
considering youve mentioned that you both agree and are comfortable with a swinging lifestyle; i agree with others; and think that perhaps a threesome is your best point of call to fullfill this fantasy; provided that you are comfortable and ready for it.

...kytnism...:|
 
Yeah, a threesome sounds ideal. That being said - it can be hard to find the right person, who you both agree on, and who is also into it. The guy would have to be at least somewhat bisexual, which is somewhat difficult to find. But if you go to swingers clubs, things like that, you may have a better chance of finding someone.
My boyfriend and I have been interested in a threesome with another guy for about a year. We aren't actively looking but just kind of thinking about it. Haven't found anyone that we both agree on and that we think would be okay with it (like ... an obviously gay or obviously straight guy). One guy we thought of, but he just got married. And his wife would freak out about it. Sooo no for that!
The blindfold thing ... seems cool as a fantasy but I don't know if it would work out in real life.
 
I commend you for being open-minded to his urges/needs, it's not easy for a lot of guys to say to their SO's(especially outside of a swinging relationship) that you wanna feel a real cock inside of you:) I said this to my girlfriend and she totally freaked out on me, it ended up driving a wedge between our romantic relationship but we're friends still and still love each other. Being bisexual myself, it didn't mean I loved her any less...but that I had a need she couldn't, wouldn't fulfill as she wouldn't consider using a strap-on. I would wait and find the right guy, no blindfolds:) That would be hotter to me at least, facial expressions and all.
 
as far as i can see a threesome has less potential to cause annoyance than him having sex with a man and you being left out.

it all depends on whether you will feel jealous and you cant know that until it happens, emotions are unpredictable like that.

best of luck x
 
Yeah, threesome definitely the way forward. Get into horny scenarios with the three of you things are likely to develop quite naturally once you're all turned on and relaxed into it. Lots of potential for you to get involved while he's being fucked too, like riding the guy while the other guys inside him. Very, very horny let me tell you! ;) Who to pick depends on you. I prefer guys I know and am comfortable with already IRL, helps me relax and open up with them, no pressure. Others prefer random meets with guys outside their circle that will not intrude into the relationship and real life, find it less threatening with no chance of an emotional involvement of some sort developing. Swinging clubs might work for the random guy thing but I find them quite pressured environments and takes a while to relax properly. Very rarely played with anyone but those we already knew and had met up with there. Swinging sites or similar might be a better bet, though meeting strangers off the internet fraught with difficulties. Take it at your own pace and don't rush or push for it just to get the thing done. It will be better if opportunities are allowed to develop more naturally.

Have fun! :)
 
alexvolume2 said:
I commend you for being open-minded to his urges/needs, it's not easy for a lot of guys to say to their SO's(especially outside of a swinging relationship) that you wanna feel a real cock inside of you:) I said this to my girlfriend and she totally freaked out on me, it ended up driving a wedge between our romantic relationship but we're friends still and still love each other. Being bisexual myself, it didn't mean I loved her any less...but that I had a need she couldn't, wouldn't fulfill as she wouldn't consider using a strap-on. I would wait and find the right guy, no blindfolds:) That would be hotter to me at least, facial expressions and all.
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This makes me so glad that I'm with a man who is secure and honest enough to be real with me, and with himself. Makes me sad for your gf, though...she won't even play with toys? Poor kid is cheating herself.

Sepher said:
Yeah, threesome definitely the way forward. Get into horny scenarios with the three of you things are likely to develop quite naturally once you're all turned on and relaxed into it. Lots of potential for you to get involved while he's being fucked too, like riding the guy while the other guys inside him. Very, very horny let me tell you! ;) Who to pick depends on you. I prefer guys I know and am comfortable with already IRL, helps me relax and open up with them, no pressure. Others prefer random meets with guys outside their circle that will not intrude into the relationship and real life, find it less threatening with no chance of an emotional involvement of some sort developing. Swinging clubs might work for the random guy thing but I find them quite pressured environments and takes a while to relax properly. Very rarely played with anyone but those we already knew and had met up with there. Swinging sites or similar might be a better bet, though meeting strangers off the internet fraught with difficulties. Take it at your own pace and don't rush or push for it just to get the thing done. It will be better if opportunities are allowed to develop more naturally.

Have fun! :)
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I live on an island in bum fuck alaska. The nearest swinger bar is probably in seattle. All the action we've had has been with good friends. Those people are special to us; sex creates a bond, but it doesn't make us less committed to each other. We are still a couple. This situation is a little more complicated than a partner swap, or even a threesome with a woman. Here's why:

When I say he's super butch, I mean he's paul fucking bunyan. A third-generation lumberjack. He's been falling timber for a living for nearly 30 years. You think military gay is tense? Logging-camp gay will get a guy buried under a root wad. I'm not even kind of exaggerating. The island we live on is alaska huge, but it's also very sparsely populated, and everybody knows your business. He cannot afford to get busted.

And.....

When I showed him this thread, this is what he said about it: "There will never be a man that I look at and say, "That's the guy I want to fuck me." That will never happen. If I'm ever going to get to feel a real cock, a blindfold may be the only way to get me over this hump." He's not interested in kissing, or foreplay of any kind. He just wants to feel a warm, throbbing member, instead of cold plastic. I've told him how good it is, and he wants the experience, the living penis, but not really attached to a man. Does anyone else identify with this at all?
 
voxmystic said:
That will never happen. If I'm ever going to get to feel a real cock, a blindfold may be the only way to get me over this hump." He's not interested in kissing, or foreplay of any kind. He just wants to feel a warm, throbbing member, instead of cold plastic. I've told him how good it is, and he wants the experience, the living penis, but not really attached to a man. Does anyone else identify with this at all?
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Gay people aren't sex toys to be experimented with then discarded.
 
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