What I ended up "having" was my dogs and some art. My corgi is my service dog, so she is never separated from me for more than a few minutes, pretty much ever. She is a great comfort to me, along with her brofur - my 16 year old German Shepherd. I love them both dearly and they keep me cuddled and distracted. Additionally, I make ceramic corgwyn, 1.25" high ones as desk/shelf trinkets for people and 1.25-1.5 cm high that I use in jewelry making. That kept me busy and distracted more than anything else.
I don't know precisely what you mean by "feeling" music. I was not always Deaf - it is a result of brain trauma that I incurred at age 26 - so I have heard music before. Shortly before my hearing loss, I purchased pretty much every scrap of everything ever recorded by Pete Yorn. That's fabulous music. I bet that would be a good one for u/Sixxam to chill to. Lose You, fucking phenomenal. Ice Age, fucking phenomenal. Relator, fucking phenomenal *and* comes from an album that's 50% Pete Yorn and 50% the beautiful and talented Scarlet Johansson (spelling?), who has a shockingly compelling voice. I am rated as "severely" Deaf as opposed to "profoundly" Deaf, so I can sometimes still listen to an intense enough song if I can find good enough headphones and just blast the Hell out of it. It really requires a lot of factors to line up perfectly, and even then when's i blast it it's like turning a speaker up to a 3-4 for a regular person. Ah well. Such is life.
Meanwhile, to your original question, many people who are rated as Deaf and who are physically and culturally Deaf - much as in the case of someone who is "blind" - still has some level of sensory use. It varies widely, and you can see that reflected in music choices. I know many "severely" or even "profoundly" Deaf people who enjoy listening to really intense, hardcore rap music, as well as some who use it as a waking alarm; they say that they can put a speaker on the floor or against a piece on furniture and turn the base up, and then can experience the music via the resulting vibrations shaking their furniture. I would presume that's what you mean by "feeling" the music? Unfortunately, that does have some limitations, especially for people who have roommates or who live in a deeply populus geographic area. It might be an option for someone who lives alone (or with other Deaf folks) and in a rural area, but it may not be for someone who has sleeping children or who lives in an apartment complex in the city. There are some definite limitations, but I still think it would be cool to come up with something.
Often, people do not think about the needs of people who are not like them, and in my experience it's strange for hearing and/or abled people to even consider differently- or dis- abled people as drug addicts in need of detox. We have very different and specific needs, and it can be frustratingly difficult to try to get those needs met. That's one of the reasons why I jumped in on this thread when I don't normally respond to detoxing threads; as a person who is dependent on opioid analgesics for the resulting pain from my crush injuries and aortic rupture, I don't necessarily think that I belong in the SL threads. However, when it was brought to my attention that there was a brain trauma survivor detoxing and reporting pseudoseizure activity, I decided to hop on over and see if I could help. ��
