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My (incarcerated) boyfriend failed a drug test.

Yes i totally understand where you are coming from there. As I am not familiar with your country's laws procedures etc is there no way his lawyer could put in an appeal to at least put him in a lower security area? He failed a drug test while on leave yet he was returning every night after his work and home visits, like an earlier poster said he could have fled knowing he would test positive. it just seems so extreme, if he'd have hurt someone while on leave maximum security would be more justifiable. the mind boggles
 
They are super harsh, its like the think hes gonna get all fucked up and commit another murder, like thats what he do he does for fun or something.

Whats a conjugal visit, im not american, after good behaviour he will be moved down to a lower security,and they have "family days" where visitord are allowed to come and everyone hangs out together. Is that a conjucal visit, what does conjugal mean
 
So today I wrote him TWO letters right, the first one was just a normal replying his letter type letter, but the second one I wrote it in like handwriting that looks like the writing you get on a calculator screen (you know what I mean, we've all written boobies at least once) and anyway it says:
I AM A ROBOT
YOU WILL SEND ME SEXY PRISON SEX STORIES OR I WILL SELF DESTRUCT NEAR YOUR LOVED ONES CAUSING THEM TO BE INJURED GRAVELY
JUST SEND THEM TO CHELSEA'S ADDRESS BECAUSE THERE IS A SECRET ROBOT HOUSE THERE
YOUR COMPLIANCE WILL BE NOTED AND MAY HELP YOU WITH ANY FUTURE DEALINGS WITH THE ROBOT ALLIANCE
FROM
ROBOT ROBOTSON

Bwahahahahahahaha! I know it's lame, but I'm sure it will make him laugh, and I may get some sexy prison sex stories out of it.. Mmmm fuck yeah... prison sex...
 
Hmm... so I thought I was just using meth for weightloss, but after affirming to not using it to lose weight.. it has been a week, and right now I am fiending for a shot... maybe I am addicted afterall.. it's not extreme though.. I mean I was only using little bits, and far spaced apart, I'm sure it will be fine, I just wont give in.
 
Please try stay off the meth, its really is one of the hardest drugs to use responsibly, even using it once a month is risky and that isn't just some random thing im saying this is what people who use meth have told me. If you really want to use something lose weight, although I still don't recommend it, try and get ritalin it really suppresses your appetite.
 
Yeah nah im fine, I just think what it is, is packing cleaning and moving house SOBER is the worst shit ever. Never again. Ive used meth for years and im fine *twitch* lol
 
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So bfs mum is picking me up coz he is gonna call her place at 2pm and so ill get to talk to him on phone yay! The problem is that I have already been a very naughty girl, and im gonna have to tell him about that which will not be easy with his mum hanging out in the background, maybe I should write it in a letter or actually wait till I can say it to his face, I dont know maybe he will be fine with it, he was fine with me being a hooker in fact he says it turns him on so I think hes a bit freaky too and maybe he'll be ok with it. I have feeling this is big step different tho coz wasnt fot worl ot money purly just my selfish pleasure.. I hope he is having hot sexy jail sex with other boys to make it even but hmmm... Fuck. Fuck fuck. Ahh vagina, u cause so much trouble for such a hidden organ.
 
Oh my satan, I had super good talk with my boy on phone, and everything is good and I can do whatever the fuck I want and its ok and he'll never stop loving me, he was like so so soo happy to speak to me and we had laugh, and good news he has to see psychologist for next 6 months and then so long as psychologist recommends it he can go back on release to work in just 6 months and then if everything goes well he will get parole in just two years, that means he will be completely out of prison in just two more years, and we were thinking it will take that long just to get release to work! He will be out of maximum security in less than a month, that means when I visit there will be a booth he says, not him behind bulletproof glass, I can hug him! Apparently he has zero sexy prison sex stories to tell me about which is disappointing but I expected he wouldnt. lol but he said he can make some up to send to robot heheheee. I am sooo happy its soo good. Everything is going to be perfect.
 
Im not sure what parole exactly entails, but he will be on parole until he dies because he was sentenced to life. I should find out about that since its going to be forever and im hoping to be seeing him for a long while, he wants to be with me forever eeek thats frightening, but if its an open relationship and I am still free to be myself and feel what I feel and do what I want than its not exactly the normal nightmare people do getting married signing there life away becoming property of their husband *shudder* then who knows it may well be forever and be fine. Im happy.
 
What parole means (in America anyway) ? "Parole" is a code word for "temporary release" (until he/she inevitably fucks up again).
 
It's a bit different here in NZ, Rocketqueen.

@Stormcharger -- Great to see another NZer! Seems there's more here than I thought! :D

Libby, I'm sorry to hear about his 12month knock from the parole board but if he keeps his head down then there's a good change he'll be out in 12 or 24 more months.. Kia kaha girlo, and as always, you can always talk to me if you need to vent or if there's anything about the NZ "Justice" system that you need to know -- I have plenty of personal experience. And if you like, you can talk to my partner about what it's like to have a boyfriend in jail -- though it wasn't as long, I'm sure many things are the same.

Hope you're doing okay, talk to you soon <3

-OCD
 
Thanks. Man if I was a boy I could just kill someone too and we could live in prison together forever and if we didnt have to try get releasef we wouldnt have to behave in there we could just get fucked up all the time. No work, no bills, they feed and shelter you..

Cept if I later on down the track decide I dont like him anymore... Which is pretty much a guarentee, id be stuck. So I guess that wouldnt work
 
I read that thing, it DOES mean " temporary release" after all, because its a life sentance. I mean hes not gonna go the whole of forever without having any drugs. Maybe I have to break up.
 
Thats if parole, which means apparently release with conditions, if drug tests are part of the conditions... Are they? Forever? For fucks sake hes not even in prison coz he was a druggie its coz he murdered someone, the conditions should be no murdering and he should take regular have u been out murdering tests not drug tests
 
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