my girlfriend wants to shoot up for the first time

[totach]

u can be able to afford heroin/or have a prescription of oxycodone for 20 years and have it not effect ur work life, friends, ect...but ur still an addict no matter what...what ur saying is basically a lee way to being an addict

if i were u id dump that bitch, shes only going to make u end up shooting and ruin ur life...there is NOTHING worse than two opie addicts in love with eachtoher..

withdrawl..fight.. shoot up, i love you...withdrawl, fight, shoot up, i love u...its an endless spiral of loser'ism

^
that really made me lol its so true.......

 

[Kanga]

I haven't read the whole thread yet but you need to tell this "buddy" to respect your fucking wishes.

 

[MistaJeff]

I think people should be allowed to do what they want, as long as it does not encroach upon the liberties of others and assuming that they are legal adults. The only reason I don't shoot drugs is because I don't want to. If I wanted to then I would be slamming everything I could get my hands on into my arm. If she has informed herself and knows the consequences then let her. You don't have to be with a needle fixated junkie if you don't want to but she has the right be be a needle fixated junkie if she wants to be.

 

[Kanga]

I think people should be allowed to do what they want, as long as it does not encroach upon the liberties of others and assuming that they are legal adults. The only reason I don't shoot drugs is because I don't want to. If I wanted to then I would be slamming everything I could get my hands on into my arm. If she has informed herself and knows the consequences then let her. You don't have to be with a needle fixated junkie if you don't want to but she has the right be be a needle fixated junkie if she wants to be.

If your girlfriend/wife/friend that you love had a gun to her head and was saying she's going to shoot herself, (or was about to get into some other substantially self destructive behavior) would you tell her "Well, that's your right."
His girlfriend can do what she wants, whenever she wants, all she has to do is break up with him and go out and use. But since she wants to be with him, and he obviously cares about her, he's going to take it as his responsibility to protect her and talk her out of it.

 

[Bostonguy9]

Dont let her do it...dont ever use a needle in that way

 

[MistaJeff]

If your girlfriend/wife/friend that you love had a gun to her head and was saying she's going to shoot herself, (or was about to get into some other substantially self destructive behavior) would you tell her "Well, that's your right."
His girlfriend can do what she wants, whenever she wants, all she has to do is break up with him and go out and use. But since she wants to be with him, and he obviously cares about her, he's going to take it as his responsibility to protect her and talk her out of it.

You should read the thread. She doesn't want to be with him and broke up with him. If someone I loved wanted to kill themselves I would be sad but I would still let them do it. I'm not selfish enough to force people I love to not do something they want to do just because I don't want them to. The only person with the right to kill you is yourself. Well, James Bond does too.

 

[.Lucid.]

mista sometimes people arent healthy enough to make proper decisions for themselves.. i get what youre saying but i think people should at least try to help before just letting a loved one go off and fuck up their whole existence.

 

[NJDOKE]

mista sometimes people arent healthy enough to make proper decisions for themselves.. i get what youre saying but i think people should at least try to help before just letting a loved one go off and fuck up their whole existence.

Yeah its like what they tell you in rehab,"Let me make your decisions for you, Look where your decision making got you." Rehab, Jail what have you...

 

[MistaJeff]

Letting someone do something and not trying to help them are two very different things. Of course any rational human being would attempt to talk someone out of doing something destructive to themselves. Physically stopping them by force or though an institution against their will is wrong in my eyes.

 

[DavisK4high247]

I used to shoot up and sadly feel in love with the needle,the whole process of fixing up a shot and doing the shot,the needle itself and the rituals are like another drug on top of the drug you are slamming ..I am lucky that I got off the needle for most of the time..I am still not 100% of the time off the needle,sometimes I just want to feel that old feeling and do the old ritual i did so many times..Kick the dudes ass if he tries to shoot your girl up becuase she will never be the same after ,and it only goes down hill from there..sorry to say,if she really wants to slam dope or whatver she will find a way,but maybe you can keep her away a little longer...good luck..

 

[Hydroxymorphodone]

Didn't read thread, but it is your responsibility to prevent this lnowing she wants to. Its her decison in the end, but once she goewn that path its all downhill and if she manages to kick the needle once she starts it is the harfdest most painful addictions to kick

 

[adder]

The thing has already happened. ^

If she's broken up with you, then what's the fuss now? I guess I didn't understand you correctly when you had written "my girlfriend", I mean I thought it'd been something serious. Well, if I am right, however, then I'd really fight for the love of my life (at least at the moment...) and it wouldn't matter she has totally no control over her drug consumption and consequences. I'd do anything so she faces the facts.

But if I'm really wrong and it was just fun/you don't care/she broke up so it's over, then there's really nothing to be done anymore.