MD Specialist
Bluelighter
We've known each other for a while, been in a relationship for a few months, and are in love. This woman was plucked straight from my dreams and into my life. We've overcome some hurdles and it brought us closer together. We have a mountain to climb and have decided to face it together side by side because of how important we are to each other. I not only see a future with her but quite possibly an infinite future. Today she did catch me off guard though. She told me that about three years ago she had had an abortion. At first i didn't believe her and to be honest I was in shock. She told me the other person was just a guy she had known for a awhile and they just hooked up when convenient so a real relationship was not going to form. I told her that it's not in my place to say if what she did was right or wrong, but that I commended her for making a tough life decision like that. I also insured her that my views on her have not changed, that I love her for everything she is, and will not judge her. Just the fact that she feels comfortable enough with me to open up like that was amazing and I really appreciated it. I love her so much but this is a little tougher to wrap my head around. It's even brought up some insecurities in myself. I'm not thinking about ending it, but I'm just trying to iron things out in my head. I know I just need to accept it, realize my insecurities are invalid, and continue to love her as I do. Just some words of encouragement or anyone that has advice from a similar situation would be nice. I just need help processing this. Thank you.
PS} No political arguments or opinions please. Everyone has the right to their own opinion.
PS} No political arguments or opinions please. Everyone has the right to their own opinion.