My Girlfriend is Overweight...Need advice please

[B1tO'RoughJack]

Nothing is wrong with surgery . First and foremost its very unhealthy and poses my
Numerous risks being over weight. And it must suck in the summertime

It's fucking lazy and last resort - you should work to get yourself out of a hole instead of taking an easy route...If you take an easy route back, you will feel more inclined to slip back into old habits, and severely fuck yourself up.

Moving back on topic - Abracadabragirl - I'm sorry that is just BULLSHIT - he said she is bordering on obese - she is not healthy. It's as simple as she has become unhealthy and he is no longer attracted to her. He wants to be attracted to her again, so he needs us to help him how to coax her into being good to herself, otherwise he is going to have to move on.

 

[Fay]

Unless she has major health issues she is probably using food and/or inactivity to fulfil a need she is not getting or has not gotten in her life. This is not to say that you are to blame but she will continue to engage in those behaviors unless the pattern is broken. I imagine her self-esteem is hurt even if she denies it and she receives comfort from these behaviors. You can help her by complimenting when she looks good or makes a good tasting healthy meal. She is probably yearning for reassurance and goes to food for comfort. With other praise she may not need as much. Focus on the good in her.

 

[ZombieK]

If you found her weight disgusting why are you with her? I can't imagine being with or intimate with someone I found to be disgusting... & you can only make suggestions to her like you have been, it is up to her to be ready to make the change. Which she obviously is not interested in at the moment. So you must decide if you can be with someone who is not worrying about their health or body and accept and love her for who she is, stubborn and at her current size or you break it off for good.