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my girlfriend confessed me something about her past,something that keeps bugging me.

Acanthus said:
Alright now THAT'S going too far. Almost certainly carrying disease.

It sounds like the OP is annoyed that he didn't get to bust her cherry.
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I think you are right. I wonder how old the OP is. I bet its a teenager. Girls go through puberty first usually so its more natural for a girl the same age to be a bit more experienced when you are a teenager.

I have found that being a woman's first has bad consequences when dating. It seems like the woman worships the ground you walk on or thinks you are destined to be together forever.

For me it has brought nothing but level 5 clingers.
 
inneedforanswers said:
i turn 25 in june and shes 23
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This was going to be my first question.

At 25, it may be time to get over these kinds of hang ups. You're not in your teens anymore. A 23 year old woman having three lovers in her lifetime isn't extraordinary. It sounds to me like she's had three boyfriends and had steady sex during her relationships. This is isn't out of the ordinary, and sounds fairly stable. As you become more experienced yourself, you'll begin to understand that you're likely turning a mole hill into a mountain here. She's with you now, that's what you want isn't it? This is ultimately what really matters. You can't beat yourself up over your partner's former sex life (especially in this case)
 
In conclusion dude: bringing up all that immature jealousy is just going to potentially cost your relationship big time. She's chosen to be with you, no-one else, don't forget that. Cherish it. Allow yourself to love her for who she is. Be happy goddamit!! ENJOY IT!!! (Yes that is an order).
 
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Sex isn't bad

I've had sex probably more than a thousand times, does that make my vagina loose? NO.
Just because a woman has had more sex than you and is fine with taking charge of her sexuality doesn't make her less, it makes her more. She is obviously fine doing what she wants with her body, sex is NOT a bad or wrong thing, there is no reason to have to be a virgin for a specific person, what is the point of that? I honestly don't see one. Until you want to have a baby, sex is purely for pleasure and there is nothing wrong with taking part in it. Just because your girlfriend isn't a virgin and your are doesn't make her a bad or dirty person. The fact that young men seem to sometimes think that because a woman/young woman has had sex that she is somehow not worth as much is bullshit. Get over your ancient viewpoints.

You should be happy that she actually has experience, that way if you do actually love her and keep your wits about you and stay with her, and eventually have sex with her, she can show you what to do. It will be better that way, believe me. Also, the fact that she has had sex 17 or more times is irrelevant. When you are dating someone, you don't count how many times you fuck, you just do. It is a normal and natural thing to do. I honestly hope you are like 14 because if I am talking to a 20 something I'm gonna pull my hair out. I hope other people have set you straight as well. Good luck. Don't leave a girl b/c she has fucked and you haven't, if you do, you're not very smart.
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