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ChemicallyEnhanced

ChemicallyEnhanced

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Lonely enough to decide today to sign up to a bunch of (free, I'm not THAT desperate) dating and hookup apps.

Anyway, I liked the look of this guy and his username was "anythinggoes" [then some letters but I'm not, like, trying to give away this person too much] and I was like "Oh, I love that", so I sent a message with just:
"In olden days, a glimpse of stocking
Was looked on as something shocking
But now, God knowsss...."

I got a blocked right after being sent a message saying "you're too naive to be on this site if you think I was referencing an old song and not the fact that I'm a no-limits cumdump"

I....uh...

Please tell me this is a rare bad luck experience and that this is NOT the norm for these sites?

*I hate when they call it that, makes me think of the Edward Lee "header"
 
hmmm be careful and conscientious of what you post here on BL that may lead to administrative ban or removal. You've been around awhile so you know what is appropriate and what is not. This is not a threat, just be aware.
 
M!$TER-ED said:
hmmm be careful and conscientious of what you post here on BL that may lead to administrative ban or removal. You've been around awhile so you know what is appropriate and what is not. This is not a threat, just be aware.
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Wait, how would this be against any rules? (genuinely asking; not being combative, I know tone can be hard to tell online :) )
This is the "sex and relationships" area....and I posted relating to sex and relationships?
 
M!$TER-ED said:
Just saying, that's all
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I just don't understand 'cause there is WAY more hardcore stuff on this sub? Are there limits or omitted stuff? I assumed this was like The Lounge (but topical) where, like, anything goes?

EDIT: That "anything goes" at the end came completely naturally. I was NOT INTENTIONALLY referencing my first post lol. Happy coincidence.
 
ChemicallyEnhanced said:
I just don't understand 'cause there is WAY more hardcore stuff on this sub? Are there limits or omitted stuff? I assumed this was like The Lounge (but topical) where, like, anything goes?

EDIT: That "anything goes" at the end came completely naturally. I was NOT INTENTIONALLY referencing my first post lol. Happy coincidence.
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Don't take it personally, not meant to cause a stir, like you said Happy Coincidence
 
ChemicallyEnhanced said:
Lonely enough to decide today to sign up to a bunch of (free, I'm not THAT desperate) dating and hookup apps.

Anyway, I liked the look of this guy and his username was "anythinggoes" [then some letters but I'm not, like, trying to give away this person too much] and I was like "Oh, I love that", so I sent a message with just:
"In olden days, a glimpse of stocking
Was looked on as something shocking
But now, God knowsss...."

I got a blocked right after being sent a message saying "you're too naive to be on this site if you think I was referencing an old song and not the fact that I'm a no-limits cumdump"

I....uh...

Please tell me this is a rare bad luck experience and that this is NOT the norm for these sites?

*I hate when they call it that, makes me think of the Edward Lee "header"
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Your post is entirely acceptable imo, some folks may get uncomfortable with words like "cum dump" etc.

As far as that being the norm... it probably depends a bit on what dating app you are using. Some.. like bumble or something, that would not fly and the user would prolly get reported/banned pretty quick I imagine. Tinder can go both ways. If you're bi or crusing on a site like Grindr it's very normal. Scary place lol.
 
apps scare me --- too innocent for the whole thing. Unless I had an angle....than id be not innocent enough for the whole thing.

I found nothing offensive about the post whatsoever --- a little shocking ppl behave like that. I member the first time I was too innocent for something it was banging a girl while her bf was in jail -- and he was a friend. Actually it was a threesome so there woulda been a witness other than her and I wasn't that into the other girl .... interestingly when the couple broke up him and that girl began to date which ruined those two's friendship.

I miss HS gossip lol
 
Didgital said:
Your post is entirely acceptable imo, some folks may get uncomfortable with words like "cum dump" etc.
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As far as that being the norm... it probably depends a bit on what dating app you are using. Some.. like bumble or something, that would not fly and the user would prolly get reported/banned pretty quick I imagine. Tinder can go both ways. If you're bi or crusing on a site like Grindr it's very normal. Scary place lol.
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I guess technically bi, yeah (it's like a 90/10 thing) and I feel like the queer ones seem definitely worse. LIke, what happened to "Hello. How are you?". Like, I HAVE people I can have sex with, but it's always like, I do it in exchange or drugs, or they're just a friend with benefits, or people I ONLY meet up with and we have sex and that's it.
I want something more than that. Do people not just chat (NORMALLY) for a bit and then on a date anymore?
 
^Fair question. When I mention meeting women in person all my friends are like "Dear god no that isn't done anymore" --- and it is a small town so word gets around but by golly is expressing interest really that damning?
 
notsmokeymcpot42088 said:
^Fair question. When I mention meeting women in person all my friends are like "Dear god no that isn't done anymore" --- and it is a small town so word gets around but by golly is expressing interest really that damning?
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i live in a house where there are 2 hot chicks just growing up around 16-17 each ;) and they are tall and cute, im pretty mature im 31.
 
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