Now the thing about relationships I've come to realize is that if it doesn't last your whole life you don't even have to cause pain to each other from the duration or the break up. The way to do this is to always communicate to the best of both of your abilities in regard to what you want out of each sexual/casual encounter and when one of you feels like your love for the other or your connection/closeness(attractions) has increased you should express to them this and how much it has increased if possible, also do so for decreases in attraction value.
The only way I've seen people get heart broken is from their expectations/desires of their partner being destroyed simply because they invested their heart into feeling that way before they communicated it, and then the partner suddenly tells them they don't feel anything close to that way about them, this feels like your heart has been betrayed but the wounds of denial are self-inflicted! You can't love your partner too hard, or too much, you must love each other equally always if you wish to never cause any form of pain to one another. The goal here is that once you both love yourselves fully then equally loving one another will become the most you can possibly feel love and all you need then is to keep that level of love for more and more moments everyday to feel insane amounts of bliss/highs constantly.
(general harmony)(emotional harmony)(mental harmony)(sexual harmony)
(spiritual harmony)(friendship)
These are all the attraction types you can gain/have/keep with another person/spirit/soul what have you. The first four are what you need, at least some of in order to have a solid relationship. Keep in mind that in order to fully love each other you must keep working to have those first four things fully and completely whereas you are ALWAYS comfortable with your partner in those aspects and never have any anxiety/depression over them. Now I also believe those last two aren't necessary but when you have them as well fully in each other THAT is who your soul mate is. Your soul mate is simply the only person in the world or at least one of the persons but the only one you have gotten close enough to so far that you can feel all six of these ways of being with. This in turn will make you realize that yes this person/spirit is the one who I can EASILY see myself spending not just this life, but eternity with and I'd go so far as to have the intense desire to merge our souls together for this other soul completes mine totally and makes me FINALLY feel FULL. To feel full forever and never have any thought of lacking anything that isn't positive/needed to evolve and gain whatever it is you want to out of this and every moment from here on out! Because what you both want will be exactly what you'll get and it will be the greatest journey/high you'll never be able to imagine until you experience it.
Anyways don't take any of my words for it. I'm just a dude who vowed to change my mindset and my ways to spread my inner love. This has caused me to over the last few months, cure my anxiety, existential questions/fears and a multiple year long off and on depression. If hard drug addiction taught me anything, it's that you CAN gain those types of drug induced highs from inside yourself, the way of the heart. The way of the minds obsessions and desires/cravings/addictions convinces you that love/pleasure/bliss is only found in outside sources (example: drugs & material possessions) and every time you do them/acquire more it reinforces this belief. Once you find your inner love & peace, all the outside sources you wanted so badly before but couldn't get certain ones will now perfectly align with your innermost desires and you'll be able to get them without having to be a slave to the addiction aspect you're used to using/thought you had to use.
Material things and technology is evil is nature because they cause us humans to become more anti-social thinking we need these things. WE REALLY think/feel we need these things because that is how the evil forces that control everything wanted us to think/feel about them. For example our basic needs are food/water, shelter, & comfort correct? How do we get any of these in this society/system? With the use of money. We need to have a material car so badly just to get to most of our jobs that this car because not a want but a need. We need the job, we need the food/water by using money, we need the shelter by using money and stressing about it over long-term plans. Comfort is simply clothes which are also controlled by money. Money is a form of enslavement so it must be evil as well. Back before evil forces corrupted our innocence we were totally free and had no obligations we had to do or any job we had to worry/stress about. We simply had all the time to socialize, practice our psychic abilities, meditate to gain highs, and perhaps even fly/control the materials of the earth with our minds like a sort of telekinetic power. Now I'm not sure about that last one but it seems possible with what I know.
The only way I see to demolish all these systems and slavery aspects of the societies in our world is either to have enough or maybe everyone learn the truths about them and how they manipulate and control us. Or perhaps just have a few willing souls to be so different to the systems, that just being near them will create massive amounts of havoc, and change the order of these systems to something manageable until it is taken apart piece by piece. The key knowledge here is that you CANNOT change any system/law/government from inside of it, their are many good/positive nature people in these areas that want to change things they see, are apart of for the better but by being a part of it they are essentially gaining a biased view about what needs to be done within the system, not that it's all bullshit in total, because that can't be it means I wouldn't have my government job anymore!!
The evil forces in these systems have so much knowledge that they will mislead the population into thinking a new or third party, or really any person in the system is the one that can save the masses and make the changes they really desire. This is an illusion for that person in the system is also controlled by the evil forces, or if it really is a good person then the system and it's aspects always knows it's not possible for the good person to gain any real power or win this election, but it gives false hope to the masses. All these labels and splitting of "power in the system" is only a ruse to conjure up even more negative and disagreements between the masses, so the evil doesn't even need to fight, the population will fight itself about shit that doesn't even matter effectively wasting their time/energy/thoughts so they won't have time to think about how to really change shit.
Man if I couldn't get all the kids in middle school to start a food fight, how on earth will I change the minds and ways of everyone in the world? I believe it is from these two truths. Any total truth no matter how small will resonate and stick in positive peoples minds and they will eventually see/believe it as their truth because it's so real that they can't deny how attractive this change/thought would be bring amount. The 2nd thing is that positive thoughts/feelings/emotions are VASTLY stronger in terms of energy level then any evil/negative thing. This massive change in energy is what enables one very positive person to manipulate and destroy possibly 10-20-30 negative evil peoples ideals and prospects. So I really don't have to convince the whole world, only enough people in it that the positive level overall starts to beat the negative and that will bring about the change into world peace/total freedom that I REALLY DESIRE. The amount of negativity in the world total is very high, many people are insanely more negative about all aspects of themselves and the world they choose to accept. But the times are changing and I see more and more people coming to realize that they too can be a very immense positive force that will change more then just themselves but change everything to a way we can all agree will be way way more enjoyable to have to experience and live as a part of. Love & Peace
