my ex is trying to do everything to humiliate me...?

[Cornishman]

Op, might I remind you that it's illegal for him to act in such a way towards you.

Next time he behaves in a threatening manner towards you call the police.
Hopefully you can get him charged for something and maybe he'll learn a lesson.

It's not OK to act like that.

Or even better. Do as the poster above me has said and get a restraining order.
He sounds potentially dangerous and extremely volatile. He's not worth the risk of being around

 

[rollll]

its all good now cos i switched tables haha his friend told me he was talking shit about me the whole time tho. he was my first love so i miss what we had :/ is there any chance he'd change & want me back?

 

[Morphling]

To hell with that. Do not get back with a controlling, abusive partner.

TBH, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Get to it!

 

[Pretty_Diamonds]

its all good now cos i switched tables haha his friend told me he was talking shit about me the whole time tho. he was my first love so i miss what we had :/ is there any chance he'd change & want me back?

What are you? CRAZY? Why would you want such a dickhead back. GUUURL, you deserve better! Seriously, normal guys--good guys AIN'T LIKE THAT. And trust me, you WILL find someone better. You need to focus on YOU, regaining your confidence and independence back!