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My boyfriend wants to cum on my face

samnslumberland

samnslumberland

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As of late, my boyfriend has been telling me that he wants to cum on my face while we're having sex and has been more sexually aggressive overall. I'm slightly uncomfortable with this because a) I'd rather he didn't, to be completely honest, and b) we've been sleeping together for over six months (we were FWB before being exclusive) and he's never expressed a desire to do anything of this sort. He always says, "I want to cum inside of you" or something along those lines. He's also been pushing for anal more so than usual, which is something that we're easing into slowly as I'm new to it.

I've gone through some pretty drastic weight loss recently and although I had an attractive figure before, it has definitely improved and even I can acknowledge that. Because of this I've been more comfortable in bed, particularly with completely removing all of my clothes while on top and in the daylight. I'm wondering if this is why he's become more aggressive and explicit in the bedroom? Is it a result of an increased attraction to me? Or, should I worry that there are other things going on and we're experiencing some sort of emotional disconnect? I'll admit that we've both been stressed lately and haven't been perfectly getting along all the time.

I plan on asking him about it myself, but I'd also like to get some opinions from other men and women who may have some insight or experience with this. I've read/been told from other men that when they're in a loving, committed relationship with a girl whom they truly care about, they don't have a desire to do things such as cum on their girlfriend's faces out of respect for them; that it's reserved for porn. Thoughts? Am I reading too far into this?

Edit: I should also mention that his sex drive has seemed to increase along the same time that he has begun being more aggressive, and he's been able to last longer. He is not taking any medication, does not indulge in any drugs other than cannabis, and drinks beer almost daily but not enough to get drunk.
 
just let him splash his load over ya boat race a couple of times.
I bet the novelty soon wears off..
ask him if its ok to shit on his face in return, see what he says?
good luck! :yep:
 
Personally I'd rather finish inside my partner as it feels better.. don't really understand the attraction to facials. But there's a lot worse things he could be asking for to be honest. A little spooge in the face isn't going to kill you, just don't get it in your eye xD
 
My girlfriend loves when I cum on her face. Just do it for him. He's not asking for orgies. There is nothing wrong with him, men have desires and strong sex drives. You are over thinking it.
 
give it a shot but close your eyes when it happens haha its sticky enough to be unpleasant in the eye i assume. guys are usually pretty curious especially in regards to sexual activities, so he probably sees it in porn and wants to do it. you could also compromise (dont know if you already do) and let him cum in your mouth, even if you just spit it out after. although i will tell you, coming from a man, there is no better feeling than when a girl keeps sucking while/after he came. better than coming inside the girl and it decreases chances of unwanted pregnancy by 100%

good luck, keep us posted. im curious as to how the suggestions work out
 
I've cum on my wife's boobs before. Granted we were rollin and she asked that I not get it on her face, and I was ok with that. Have you had much oral sex? I think porn makes it sound interesting but not something I actively wanted to do. Sounds like he is exploring his sexual options. What do you want to do that he hasn't heard yet? You mentioned weight loss. Congrats and I think you should be proud of your body.
 
He's probably seen it in porn and wants to try it, would be my guess?

Has he come anywhere else besides inside you? I enjoy coming on her stomach or tits, because it's visually super hot.. i've never had an interest in the face, that doesn't really appeal to me. But with that said coming in her mouth from a blowjob is possibly the best feeling ever..
 
What exactly are you expecting to achieve with this thread? Did you want other people to decide if you should accede to your boyfriend's sexual requests? Why would you allow the opinions of strangers to influence your decision more than the opinion of your boyfriend? One either does or does not want to do something. The popularity of a choice should be of no value.
 
pokepoke420 said:
... Just do it for him. He's not asking for orgies. There is nothing wrong with him...
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Just curious here, does this suggest there is something wrong with him if he is interested in participating in an orgy?

Also, is youre advice for this young lady srsly, "just do it" ?

@samnslumberland id say communication; ask him to express to you why he wants to do certain things, and tell him how it makes you feel (honestly), and then ask him to describe it to you in a way that turns you on perhaps. theres nothing wrong with telling your boyfriend the idea of it turns you off.
 
Is there something wrong with having jizz on your face?

You can have a shower.

My GF had jizz in her ear once, after i was fucking her mouth for about 20 mins then exploded in her face and she turned her head. She complained a bit, but i think she liked it secretly. We fucked again after our shower.
 
He's been watching porn........facials and anal are very popular themes . Do you ever watch with him ? If not try it and let him show you what he would like to do with you.
We indulge in both once in awhile. Variety is the spice of life and a healthy sexual relationship
 
i am married to a sex addict,believe me when i say its no fun .he is always trying to find the next thing to help his addiction.needless to say our marriage has been real rocky!
 
Just let him do it at least once, and tell him that you get to do something sexually that you've always wanted to do.
 
i don't know how i would feel about it if i was a girl, but i would let a girl i loved piss on my face or do anything dirty or kinky she wanted
 
I guess it all depends on how far are you wiling to expand your sexual experiences with your partner.

I once read that certain sexual fantasies like this and others stated above makes us men feel distant when it come to routine activities as if you would appreciate your girl more in bed and less in life.

I don't remember who wrote this but I've seen friends of mine not willing to risk their intimacy and love.

Regardless, I think it's only fine if you know she's really accepting this or will do it for the relationship, or to avoid losing you to some other girl.
 
My long-term boyfriend came on my face regularly. It is slightly degrading. And he ended up trying to beat me, so that didn't turn out so well.

But I'm pretty sure most guys want to cum on their girls' faces every now and then; it's pretty normal.
 
StrongJohn said:
give it a shot but close your eyes when it happens haha its sticky enough to be unpleasant in the eye i assume. guys are usually pretty curious especially in regards to sexual activities, so he probably sees it in porn and wants to do it. you could also compromise (dont know if you already do) and let him cum in your mouth, even if you just spit it out after. although i will tell you, coming from a man, there is no better feeling than when a girl keeps sucking while/after he came. better than coming inside the girl and it decreases chances of unwanted pregnancy by 100%

good luck, keep us posted. im curious as to how the suggestions work out
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tomdpimp said:
I've cum on my wife's boobs before. Granted we were rollin and she asked that I not get it on her face, and I was ok with that. Have you had much oral sex? I think porn makes it sound interesting but not something I actively wanted to do. Sounds like he is exploring his sexual options. What do you want to do that he hasn't heard yet? You mentioned weight loss. Congrats and I think you should be proud of your body.
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malakaix said:
He's probably seen it in porn and wants to try it, would be my guess?

Has he come anywhere else besides inside you? I enjoy coming on her stomach or tits, because it's visually super hot.. i've never had an interest in the face, that doesn't really appeal to me. But with that said coming in her mouth from a blowjob is possibly the best feeling ever..
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When doing oral, I always finish him off in my mouth. If I'm in the process of switching birth controls or forget to take it, I will finish him off in my mouth after PIV. I don't mind having his cum on my face or anywhere else on/in my body, I have a shower and his bodily fluids don't gross me out anyway. He's never cum ON me though, it's never come up until just recently when he started saying that he wants to do it on my face.

Nom de Plume said:
What exactly are you expecting to achieve with this thread? Did you want other people to decide if you should accede to your boyfriend's sexual requests? Why would you allow the opinions of strangers to influence your decision more than the opinion of your boyfriend? One either does or does not want to do something. The popularity of a choice should be of no value.
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No, of course I don't expect others to make decisions for me. I'm going to do whatever I'm comfortable with regardless of what others say. I'm asking for people's input who have experience with this as I'm wondering how it has impacted their relationship in the long run. It IS a somewhat demeaning act, and although I am all for trying new things and pleasing my partner in whatever way that I can, it makes me nervous because this is completely new territory for me (he has A LOT more experience than I do, both sexually and relationship-wise).
 
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