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What are your opinions on when your partner moans and talks dirty? Does it turn you on? What are some of your experiences in the sack?





A lot of females that I have been with totally got turned on when I would moan. Either while I was receiving oral sex or hitting it in the sack. I think it is one of the sexiest parts of sex, hearing your partner moan and enjoy herself!
 
Well if I don't hear em moaning ya know ya ain't doing it right. simple. I would HATE a girl to stop herself moaning - it's so hot, it just gets me harder much much quicker when they just get go and vocalize... talking dirty is cool - just her saying what she wants me to do, while not being too bossyy

- this woman I slept with last week was too bossy, and that accompanied with a spot of brewers droop, meant the evening wasn't as good as it could've been - next time I'm gonna say I like when you ask me to do things but let me do ma thing too, coz you'll get so much morre!! honestly nothing better than when someone asks you to eat them in a rushed hushed voice which is almost moaning and groaning in its tone...fuuuuuuuck.
 
Yeah, I love dirty talk and moaning. I don't like the sound of my own moans and I used to get complaints about bein too quiet. I held back moans but since the misses has talked to me about it, I don't any more. She gets turned on by my moans and I love to make her moan and scream and cuss and whimper . . . all that just makes me wanna go harder and get more out of her.
 
I'd say it's a plus. As a female who likes both men and women: I really hate/find irritating - those females with that fake high pitched porno style moan (never experienced that in personal experience.... thank God). With men? I like the occasional moan, nothing too 'grunt-like'. I do like dirty talk, but not too dirty, certainly not 'rude' dirty talk. Haha. ;)
I think seeing my boyfriend smile at me, that dirty 'I want to fuck the shit out of you' smile is very sexy :D
 
Jblazingphoenix100 said:
Well if I don't hear em moaning ya know ya ain't doing it right. simple. I would HATE a girl to stop herself moaning - it's so hot, it just gets me harder much much quicker when they just get go and vocalize... talking dirty is cool - just her saying what she wants me to do, while not being too bossyy

- this woman I slept with last week was too bossy, and that accompanied with a spot of brewers droop, meant the evening wasn't as good as it could've been - next time I'm gonna say I like when you ask me to do things but let me do ma thing too, coz you'll get so much morre!! honestly nothing better than when someone asks you to eat them in a rushed hushed voice which is almost moaning and groaning in its tone...fuuuuuuuck.
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Let me do my damn thing, and stop yelling at me goddamn-it women!!!!
 
I'm not accustomed to dirty talk and while I wouldn't mind hearing it, I have no preference either way. I don't do it myself as I dunno if I'd really feel comfortable saying most of the things that would fall in that category... or it wouldn't fit in with the character of our sex most of the time. :D
As for moaning, I find it to be a huge turn-on, as long as it is (seems) natural and not forced. My girlfriend is usually pretty quiet during sex, save for short, labored gasps of air and the accompanying occasional sounds. When I'm really hitting the spot or she's nearing orgasm, she will moan and gasp uncontrollably, which I find sexy as hell, cause I know she doesn't usually feel comfortable making much noise. I wouldn't mind if she did so a little more often.
 
I think sex should be a hasty yet controlled, well-regulated and highly-organised affair ceasing only after the male's emission, after which the female constructs a basic sandwiched meal for sustenance before the male retires for slumber.

In all srsness, moaning is actually something I need to work on and hope and to grow out of not actually doing.

I don't know, I just feel a bit awkward when I moan, as it's always forced. Most women I know say they rather the guy makes noise too, but I just don't/can't, for some reason. I'm trying to work on it though.

I'm surprised by the amount of guys who moan as well. I wish I could do it comfortably! I reckon the fact I have never had sex with somebody I love has everything to do with it though.......opinions?

As for dirty talk....again, I feel a bit of a tit doing it but I am 100% certain that it's because I am usually just engaging in meaningless sex with somebody I don't love because I'm deep like that.
 
IDK how you could not moan! I feel little moans coming out just from seeing an attractive girl sometimes. Whenever I get really turned on, my breathing changes and I have little moans on the exhale.
 
I'm a loud exerciser.... pretty sure all the men I've been with have made sounds of some description. Usually I can go one way or the other, but my current partner seems to have roused my noisy/verbal tendencies. he he ;)
 
I absolutely love it; turns me on to know my partner is turned on and I like to know when I'm hitting the right spots.
 
Moaning is a must. It is almost like a language and a method of sexual communication. It lets me know that I am doing it right by listening to the strength of the moans. It tells me what she likes and where she likes it.
 
woamotive said:
I think seeing my boyfriend smile at me, that dirty 'I want to fuck the shit out of you' smile is very sexy :D
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Yessss agreed!!! :)

My bf doesn't moan ... he is so silent during sex ... well he breathes fast lol ... but that's all I hear. Hah. I moan ... not like crazy loud but I moan a bit. Turns my bf on. :) I can't really help it anymore. I used to be quiet ... but the sex got better so now I moan!

I would love it if my bf made some sort of noise ... so that I knew he was enjoying it ... at least during blow jobs. Actually usually he will say "that feels so good" but it sounds kinda forced and I think he's just doing that cuz I mentioned that he was very quiet. But I want to know if I'm doing a good job ... well I know I am ... but still!
 
Pegasus said:
I feel little moans coming out just from seeing an attractive girl sometimes..
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...Stay away from my daughter.

llama112, I've had a girl say to me before "you should try making a bit more noise so I know you're enjoying it!" and yeah, it definitely sounded forced and fake when I started vocalising my enjoyment. My silence didn't mean I wasn't enjoying it, it just meant I was concentrating on making her feel great.

Try not to take it too personally that your boyfriend is quiet during sex, as many men are. You know you are doing a good job, so try not to worry about it.
 
Fair enough!
I appreciate your openness and how in touch with your feelings you are. You display your appreciation of the opposite sex and aren't afraid to let go, and I applaud that. But if I were to walk into a store and see a guy moaning under his breath whilst staring at a beautiful woman, I'd be inclined to alert the authorities.
 
I like it when the guy moans and grunts so I know he's enjoying himself - so long as he's not being extremely loud, because that's sort of a turn off to me. Oh, and dirty talk is fucking awesome.
 
I'll moan if she's doing it right ;)

Otherwise her moaning is awesome so long as it's not obnoxious.
 
I have a hard time being with anyone who doesn't moan! Honestly, it pretty much ruins sex if they're silent.
 
Being silent sucks like it so ruines the whole sex thing for me.
I LOVE it when the guy moans and i tend to a lot... and he always gets more hard and ect from it so im doing it right i guess
 
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