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Moaning

I'm am not a big moaner or groaner, that doesn't mean I'm not enjoying it, I just feel it is a little forced to scream and carry on. I am more than happy to whisper dirty words in her ear and tell her how beautiful she is. Besides she is noisey enough for the two of us (which I enjoy). Sometimes I even have to thrust something in her mouth in case she wakes the kids or neighbours. ;)
 
You know what's even hotter? When you're purposefully trying to be quiet (someone else is in the other room or something) and they can't help but let out a moan, despite their best efforts to remain discrete.
 
Moaning and groaning has a primative, raw, beastly and animalistic quality to it.

I've always wanted to grunt and squeal like a pig and make some donkey and cow noises during some wild sex but for the sake of my reputation I've held back.
 
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love it love it love it, and most gals like it too IMO, except u need to adjust your filth level, to the partner, some cant handle extreme dirty talk, lol. one BL girl I've seen vids of, is insanely loud during sex!! and WOW its incredibly hot!! if she were in a hotel, she'd be heard 3 rooms down and they'd call the front desk! there is that one porn dude..nick cannon, or something like that, who screams "dropping loads!!!!" lol on the stern show alot, thats kinda goofy , IMO
 
I am a girl and have never been a screamer. I wish I was so overwhelmed with pleasure that I would scream like I had seen a snake.... NPI - lol - I do moan silently and constantly tell my man that it feels good. I think anyone needs that. That being said, I've been told that I should be more vocal "while having sex", now this can ruin a good hot moment. If you feel like you are not doing something they want you to do then you automatically try to force it, that just sucks. Talking dirty is tha shit but I have to be in that kinky/crazy kind of mood. Which is normally the case - and the sex is great don't get me wrong....

Word of advice for men that want their woman to scream/moan louder/ be more vocal in general..... don't tell her in the middle of sex. :! It makes me feel like I'm doing something that dosen't come natural to me... dunno about anyone else. If you want us to scream - don't tell us - make us.... lol.
 
daisys&pandas said:
Word of advice for men that want their woman to scream/moan louder/ be more vocal in general..... don't tell her in the middle of sex. :!
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Anybody who needs that kind of advice shouldn't be granted the pleasure of sex in the first place.

Nah but that's just idiocy, though. If she wants to be more vocal during the sex, she will be, but you shouldn't try to force anything out of the sexual experience in the midst of it! If you would rather she made a bit more noise then by all means make a comment on it after the experience but why ruin the moment like that?

It's all about communication though and works both ways. If you are complaining that he isn't doing enough to make you scream ("if you want us to scream then make us"), then you need to tell him what he should do more of, do a little less of, work more on, what you love him doing etc. He isn't a mind-reader.
 
^ Point taken and girls too often think guys can or "should be able" to read our minds... lol. I'm kidding but I know I have to be more vocal in what I want. Its just that "come on baby I want to hear you scream loud", well..... ummm. ok I can fake it. That just pisses me off then the moment is ruined. Have you ever tried to fake a pleasure scream. I'm not talking about egging them on with words, or talking dirty or moaning. I mean waking the neighbors screams.... It sounds like I'm being scalped instead of f****..... to me anyway. I'm being silly but the chicks in porno's do it so much better. =)

Its probably just a heat of the moment thing for him but i'm just not a screamer.... or yet. And I think were all different in how we express those kinds of emotions and the screamers..... do your thing. Were all different and taboo in our own ways. Thats what makes the world interesting.
 
Talk dirty maybe a little bit, but talking dirty always seems to be for the others persons benefit. Now when my gf moans, I know shes doing it cause she is really turned on and (in a sense) tuned out.

Actually though, the hottest thing is when you do it somewhere where you cant moan, like on the other side of a wall from her parents bed, so you have to hold your hand or make her hold her hand over her mouth, and all you can hear are these little squeals as she tries not to scream...


I seriously just got a boner typing that
 
I tend to "roar" as my gf calls it when I orgasm.
Long story short when i was doing her missionary style i came with my mouth right next to her and pretty much deafened her LOL.
 
if my partner were quiet itd be weird and id probably stop. i dont think ive ever slept with a non vocal girl tho. however im often told im very vocal and that most men arent. too bad, trippin out on soundwaves when u have sex is great. if i have to be quiet, its also kind of awkward.
 
yah, its pretty awesome that most men are rather quiet in bed. that way, when im nice and vocal, its like 100x more effective. thanks for keepin my game strong, all yall silent guys ;)

being a big facetious here... but still, why do you think a nice relaxing "mmmmmmmmm" makes a massage feel better? why do you say "mmmmmmm" when youre eating a delicious meal? why do you say "mmmmmmmm" when that pill of mdma kicks in and your body feels all warm and fuzzy? why does this sound have such a connection with meditative mantras? its the sound of the buzzing of the cosmos! sex is a cosmic connection, and it only makes sense to tap into that cosmic rhythm, the sine curve of the sound one makes when pleasure is released.

or perhaps our biology developed it during our most recent last couple hundred thousand years of evolution, as a way of attracting partners, getting attention, and communicating during sex before there was a language for communication (not too many animals have sex in the pleasurable manner we do). either way, were either spiritually rigged for it, biologically rigged for it, or both. being vocal is very natural.
 
Moaning is mandatory!

Although sometimes slight feeling of self consciousness when volume is high and suspect the neighbors are getting jealous. Only live once I guess.
 
whats that old saying, moan like everyones listening or soemthing like that...?

i guess it makes you feel good, lets try it everyone togeather with me now...

"Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!"

its like a sexy sigh, it does feel good!
 
i love it when a woman moans and screams when having sex with her. the usual moans are yes, yes, yes, oh baby fuck me harder, oh i think i'm going to come. i also love women talking dirty, it seems to get me aroused. all i need them to say then is fancy a shag honey.
 
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