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Mixed signals

ballsdeep927

ballsdeep927

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Okay so long story short... I've been talk to this guy for awhile and we've pretty much been in a relationship without the title. Like two weeks ago we got into a small fight and fixed things a week later, and he stayed the night last weekend. After he left he was messaging me on facebook off of a friends account saying that he really likes me and wants to be commited to me, and that i should sit him down and talk to him, and all this cute stuff. Then the next day we were suppose to hangout but plans got all wierd then i haven't really heard from him since. So like a week. I kept hearing that hes a manwhore and all this but then people started telling me how much he likes me and how much he talks about me. So i have noclue what the hell is going on. Pleaseeeee help me!
 
He might have feelings for you but not be ready to settle down. Meaning, he might not want to lose his other options. I hope it works for you though..
 
Thankyou. I really appreciate it. Thats what i would assume, but just a day or two before i last heard from him, he was messaging me off someone elses facebook say that he wants to be committed with me. lol im like sooo lost right now.
 
I've been through it before. Some people are love whores, just looking for as many people to genuinely love them as possible. They can only maintain so many people before one relationship begins to falter. Again, I encourage communication though. Ask him what you asked us, and decide for yourself if things add up.
 
Yeah, I mean we have alot of the same friends, so I'll see him sometime soon. Then he'll slowly start to try to make things how they were again, like hes done before, but this time I'll actually say something and be like hey wtf? lol
 
modelskinny said:
Communication is key. You can speculate as much as possible but won't truly get an answer until you ask him outright.
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Yep, basically.
None of us can figure out what's going on in his head. Only you can, once you ask him.
 
Don't waste your time on someone who plays mind games like that. You deserve better.
 
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