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Men like women with no makeup? WAT??

eireann said:
i find it a massive turn off close up when you can actually see the make up molecules,haha i dont know about you but the most attractive girls i see out and about are not wearing make up,i will admit you dont notice them as much,but when you do they are fucking stunning!!!
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There's a big difference between people who know how to wear make up and people who don't. People who do you won't be able to see any 'make up molecules'. Obvious foundation is the worst.
 
Lysis said:
Some of the guys mentioned liking women who don't wear makeup, but I find that a farce.
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Oh, don't get me wrong. I dig make-up. In pictures. It's a totally effective way of taking a really hot picture.

Now, that isn't to say after the guy gets to know a girl and loves her personality that she is beautiful to him even first thing in the morning. I've had those moments too, but those initial moments where attraction is important, makeup is a part of the "beautiful woman" persona that men are looking for and (maybe) don't realize they are attracted to.
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I would say that the stage of "after [atara] gets to know a girl" takes about a day, if that.

For example, there was this girl back in high school. I'll call her J. J was hot. J wore make-up most days. But the days that she didn't, she looked just as hot, because my mind goes: it's J. She's hot. I know[1] J. The presence of make-up does not make me think I'm looking at a totally different person. I didn't even really know[2] her, nor did I need to.

If your concern is the first impression, it's obviously important, just like clothing, posture, and the expression on your face. It certainly doesn't take weeks of spending time together and a psychoemotional attachment for me to figure out what's going on. Though of course there's nothing wrong with being concerned about first impressions: they matter. It's why I shave in the morning.

One more thing:

You certainly don't find men posting pics of celebrities caught without makeup, in their sweats and their hair a mess as a "hot" pic of them.
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*removed link to porn*

EDIT: Yet another thing. There are definitely guys who like make-up in general, viz. like the fact that you are wearing make-up, prefer to see you with make-up, et cetera. And there are also guys who do not, which includes me. Saying "I do/don't like make-up" can mean this division. There's also, like, the view that runny make-up is really hot, which I kind of understand but my impression has always been that it would taste bad, y'know, once you're at that point in the game...

[1] - saber

[2] - conocer
 
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shimazu said:
I dont think guys realize how much makeup actually changes the girl for the better

I dont mind girls without it, but they do look better with it

any celebrity you see not in a paparazzi picture is wearing a lot of makeup
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This is soooooo true.
I mean, I know there are some guys out there who really do know what girls look like without makeup. But many don't really think about it.
I know that my boyfriend (who is all for the "natural" look) always compliments me more when I have on a layer of mascara. lol
 
atara said:
Oh, don't get me wrong. I dig make-up. In pictures. It's a totally effective way of taking a really hot picture.



I would say that the stage of "after [atara] gets to know a girl" takes about a day, if that.

For example, there was this girl back in high school. I'll call her J. J was hot. J wore make-up most days. But the days that she didn't, she looked just as hot, because my mind goes: it's J. She's hot. I know[1] J. The presence of make-up does not make me think I'm looking at a totally different person. I didn't even really know[2] her, nor did I need to.

If your concern is the first impression, it's obviously important, just like clothing, posture, and the expression on your face. It certainly doesn't take weeks of spending time together and a psychoemotional attachment for me to figure out what's going on. Though of course there's nothing wrong with being concerned about first impressions: they matter. It's why I shave in the morning.

One more thing:


EDIT: Yet another thing. There are definitely guys who like make-up in general, viz. like the fact that you are wearing make-up, prefer to see you with make-up, et cetera. And there are also guys who do not, which includes me. Saying "I do/don't like make-up" can mean this division. There's also, like, the view that runny make-up is really hot, which I kind of understand but my impression has always been that it would taste bad, y'know, once you're at that point in the game...

[1] - saber

[2] - conocer
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You should warn people when linking an x-rated site.

I didn't see any without makeup, but didn't go past the first page
 
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There is a difference between women who look all haggard in sweatpants/ yoga pants, a baggy shirt, no makeup and gross hair, and a woman who presents herself well, maybe for work or a date, but chooses not to wear makeup. It is possible to take pride in your appearance without wearing makeup, and I live with an amazing and beautiful woman who is proof of that.
 
eireann said:
i find it a massive turn off close up when you can actually see the make up molecules,haha i dont know about you but the most attractive girls i see out and about are not wearing make up,i will admit you dont notice them as much,but when you do they are fucking stunning!!!
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lol. so it's going to be a massive turn off if a girl becomes slightly less attractive without makeup? or you assume women who use it must be hideous without it?

every guy vehemently against it, without exception, sounds uneducated about women in general. and like they haven't had many different experiences with them.

i'm sure it's just because girls who "have" to wear makeup are ugly, and these guys are real studs who would never need to date a cute woman who can turn herself cuter with the education of the use of makeup. nope. they could all score a girl who looks like a 10 au natural. even, apparently, when these are women spotted in public. in public places, randomly.

where you go up to girls and ask them what cosmetics they used that day.
 
I didn't actually expect men to be so anti makeup.

Since I was about 16 I've usually used a little eyeliner, mascara and eyeshadow. Nothing on the rest of my skin, as I deemed it too much effort.

When I was about 23 I started to get spots, which over time have developed to pretty nasty acne. I found that benzyl peroxide works pretty well, but it makes me skin bright red so I tried other things (antibiotics, pill - everything short of roaccutane, which sounds like such a horrible drug).

It occurred to me as a bit of a revelation a few weeks ago that I could go back to using benzyl peroxide and cover the redness and the spots with makeup by the shovel load. I'd avoided it up until then because I thought it'd make my spots worse.

So... I wear makeup because I am covering up something nasty. Big red spots, purple scars, and everything all red. So sorry girls, I'm the monster making men afraid of makeup...
Due to my lack of makeup experience, I probably do have a cakey face. I'm trying to keep it to a minimum, but there's no doubt you'd get down with the molecules if you got too close.

It's not great. Actually it's pretty horrible, at least until I master getting it on smoothly, but it beats showing the full face of acne. Given this thread, I think it's fair to say I'm doing this for me, not for attracting men. It just makes it easier for me to look at myself.
Which is probably for the best, as I have absolutely no clue how sex would work with a face full of foundation. It'd get all over the place, slide off, and leave some kind of franken-makeup-acne-party.

Anyone here wear enough makeup to be able to educate me?
 
angelsmoke said:
[has acne, uses make-up to hide it]
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Your problem isn't make-up, it's acne. Topical niacin and low-GL/dairy-free diets have very few side-effects. I say this not because I'm against make-up but because you could be doing some damage to yourself with the benzoyl peroxide, especially if it turns your whole face red. You need to lay off, give your skin time to heal, and work on understanding what usually goes on in your life before you break out. If you pay attention to it you may be able to identify the cause, and you may notice times when the break-outs are not as bad, and what you might have done or what you might be able to do to prevent that.

I had pretty bad acne until I gave up milk and tried to eat lots of vegetables that contain carotenoids. It hasn't gone away completely, but it improved a lot.

Another trick is to swap out your pillowcase regularly. It's not good to hold your face next to some nasty piece of cloth for eight hours.

Also, you don't need to feel bad about having acne. It's okay. If you leave it alone for a while you'll probably find that it doesn't look as bad as you think it does when you obsess over it. Worrying also leads to touching your face, which is bad.
 
I told my ex that I liked her without makeup. She was just as cute, but after sex she looked much uglier for some reason. At certain angles though a girl doesn't look so cute.
 
I like girls with no make-up..

I also like the tracksuit hair in a mess look..

Make up can add (or takeaway) somethings but overall i'd prefer the world without makeup.. I don't like the idea of it at all.. Women will say they wear it because it makes them feel good but that is only because of the media and that's all aimed at how to look good FOR MEN.

High heels for example.. were created by a man who thought it made womens legs look better..
 
atara said:
Your problem isn't make-up, it's acne. Topical niacin and low-GL/dairy-free diets have very few side-effects. I say this not because I'm against make-up but because you could be doing some damage to yourself with the benzoyl peroxide, especially if it turns your whole face red. You need to lay off, give your skin time to heal, and work on understanding what usually goes on in your life before you break out. If you pay attention to it you may be able to identify the cause, and you may notice times when the break-outs are not as bad, and what you might have done or what you might be able to do to prevent that.

I had pretty bad acne until I gave up milk and tried to eat lots of vegetables that contain carotenoids. It hasn't gone away completely, but it improved a lot.

Another trick is to swap out your pillowcase regularly. It's not good to hold your face next to some nasty piece of cloth for eight hours.

Also, you don't need to feel bad about having acne. It's okay. If you leave it alone for a while you'll probably find that it doesn't look as bad as you think it does when you obsess over it. Worrying also leads to touching your face, which is bad.
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Quoted because it's worth a re-read. Most people want the "quick fix" however, and make up is just that... :-/
 
angelsmoke said:
I didn't actually expect men to be so anti makeup.
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I have to agree w/ lysis here.. They probably don't know.
But I still don't understand that, whomever said they "hate" it, but u know they're still fantasizing about some "star," whom they probably wouldn't be giving a second look if they weren't caked in makeup and fake hair...
Then again, what the hell do I know bc I sure don't understand men @ all..
 
A woman who is pretty is going to look just as pretty with or without makeup. It's not something i notice at all unless a woman is doing her makeup in front of me or something. I do think abit of makeup can add a certain touch to how some women look but overall i do like the natural look better.
 
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