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I've never been hit by a woman I didn't pay good money to get paddled by.

Life is too short to hang out with a partner who screams like a banchee. Tread lightly and leave no trace is my motto, in the bush and in public. I've never understood people who have domestics in public places. I'm the same when it comes to screaming at your kids. It's more of a reflection of your parenting skills than how evil your children are if you have to discipline them in a shopping centre.
 
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^Your children should have the FEAR kicked into them since a very early age so they know not to mess around when you're on a family outing at the shopping center.
 
Exactly. It's all about the growly daddy voice. Or sometimes the evil eye. My daddy voice has been known to even make child of the beat stop and rethink what she is doing.

I don't get yelling and screaming fights between couples. Better off just packing a bag, grab your keys and head down to the pub for the night. Just like ray liotta in good guys. He just laughed and turned on his heels when he was chewed out by his mother-in-law for coming home late.

Then again he did have a mistress holed up in a sweet pad on the other side of town.
 
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StoneHappyMonday said:
Ah, not enough rapists for your liking eh? Them's the breaks. If it's any comfort EADD has always been replete with men who specialise in hitting women. Ask CherryColouredFunk.

Hope that makes you feel better.
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Not better per se. More comfortable with my position perhaps knowing that many others feel the same way I do.
 
hexagram said:
not sure if that was a dig or not, I'm not saying we have it really bad or anything or that there's loads of inequality towards men. I understand that in most areas women have more inequality, I was just saying that in some area's, ie domestic abuse, the attitude of society is much more inequal to men. That's all I was saying.

maybe it came across strongly but I guess it's because I've experienced the utter frustration of being in an abusive relationship and most people around me not giving a fuck. But whatever.
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No no man, not a dig. Not at all. I agree, there's a level of unjust inequality when it comes to forms of domestic abuse, almost every time no matter who's beating who, people side with the woman.
I have an old buddy who was frequently hit by his lady. Frequently. and hard. She was much smaller than him but her punch still left the marks and after years between seeing him, where once he was a vibrant and strong man, the friend I knew had been diminished into this worn down, sad eyed man and he was stuck. Stuck with her, hoping she would be nice again and be a good Mother and wife.
WEll they didn't make it and he's better off without her. He fought hard and unlike most outcomes in the courts, he actually got custody of the children. A very rare outcome.
No digs. You have good points. I think the main thing is, violence is never the solution between couples.
take care
 
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I don't get yelling and screaming fights between couples. Better off just packing a bag, grab your keys and head down to the pub for the night. Just like ray liotta in good guys. He just laughs and turns on his heels when he was chewed out by his mother in law for coming home late.

Then again he did have a mistress holed up in a sweet pad on the other side of town.
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Brilliant scene that was, love that film
 
junegreenjeans said:
No no man, not a dig. Not at all. I agree, there's a level of unjust inequality when it comes to forms of domestic abuse, almost every time no matter who's beating who, people side with the woman.
I have an old buddy who was frequently hit by his lady. Frequently. and hard. She was much smaller than him but her punch still left the marks and after years between seeing him, where once he was a vibrant and strong man, the friend I knew had been diminished into this worn down, sad eyed man and he was stuck.
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this is very sad, its awful when women are victims of domestic abuse, but i just cannot understand how a man could allow himself to become a victim of physical abuse by a woman. The basic physical strength difference thing means it just doesnt add up for me. I once had a partner who attacked me, I wasnt going to stand for that. Not a fuckin chance on earth.
 
yes, if you value the opinion of the other over your own. Its very easy to type that, but ive had my share of verbal abuse, and the real test will come when it next happens to me. Will i be able to dismiss verbal abuse like water off a ducks back next time it happens ? I feel you/i/everyone needs to be able to do that. Some people can be very cruel.
 
a lot of the stuff that hurts the most though is actually said by people who love you. They know how to work your buttons and say what will upset you, and in a weird sort of way it's because they love you that they say those kinds of things, they want a reaction and to know you care.

at least from my experience anyway.
 
been in fights my whole life. Twice, I have been with girls who attacked me repeatedly until finally i thumped 'em good, or got the hell outta there. I was suprised at how potentially devastating a scorned/enraged female could be! My one ex attacked me with a 40 oz beer bottle, was swinging for the fences.
 
FFS, just speaking to the ex, turns out her guy is beating her ass worse than I knew, kinda made me see this thread in a new light after speaking to her.
He broke her new Samsung smartphone last night for calling me then broke her wrist too to show her "not to call me"

Fucking CUNT, I swear to God next time I am in that country I am gonna bury the twat, fucking asshole.
Yeah not cool to do that kinda thing.
 
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