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Leeq

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So, I did MDMA with this girl the other day. It's the first time we've properly physically met, we've had brief 5 minute chats but never before hung out, although we spoke a fair bit on Facebook.

I've had feelings for her for a fair bit, and this day we met up and did MDMA in a field, in the day. I don't know why but I didn't feel the MD that much (I hadn't taken it for 2 weeks and had a nice sized bomb, although I'm not an experiences user, this was my third experience. I was drinking a citric drink which some people says reduces effects of MDMA?) but I still noticeably felt it. We had crystal and it was good stuff.

Anyhow, the night after that at home, during my comedown, my feelings for her escalated extremely, I was extremely depressed (She's got a boyfriend) and just totally distraught, angry, punching walls, just hating myself really.

Do you think this was the MDMA increasing my feelings for her, or just the depressing comedown mixed with the un-reciprocated feelings making me shit?

Also, will a quarter gram of MDMA do me for one night?
 
Well, your feelings are your feelings, doesn't really matter where they come from. However, if I were getting distraught over feelings for a girl I'd only met once, I'd want to take a second look at things.

Your frequency of use may be a problem. You should put at least a month-long break between MDMA uses, three months if possible. By taking it more often than once a month you risk damaging your brain's serotonin system, which is responsible for feelings of love, happiness, etc.
 
That sounds familiar. First of all, youve shared this positive experience together. Second of all, an MDMA comedown increases every emotion (in my case at least): happiness, love, but also sadness and it can cause you to focus on the negative side to things. Also, are you aware that you should wait at least 6 weeks in between MDMA uses? Doing it sooner than that can significantly increase your comedown symptoms. Either way, I recognize the feelings you're having and I can say that about 50% of that can be attributed to MDMA use, so just wait it out and see if you still feel the same way in a couple of weeks time. Good luck!
 
I've had a situation a little bit like that. I am happily married, and there was a girl I was really good friends with from working together, and the two of us went to a party together and rolled (my wife was invited but didn't feel like going but was cool with me going still - it was all on the up-and-up). I like the girl and if I wasn't married, she would definitely be my type. But, I had no plans of cheating and didn't, but it was all the usual lovey-dovey rolly kind of talking, dancing and hanging out. But for the following two days after, I felt like I was in love with this girl to the point where it was fucking with my head badly and making me think things I would never normally think. It was seriously messing me up, making me feel like a lovestruck teenager. Saw some signs of similar albeit less severe feelings from the other girl, too. But after a few days passed, everything was back to normal and nothing was weird.
 
Crashing said:
Are you saying that you got really horny and it frustrated you?
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Not horny at all man.


Clocktower said:
Well, your feelings are your feelings, doesn't really matter where they come from. However, if I were getting distraught over feelings for a girl I'd only met once, I'd want to take a second look at things.

Your frequency of use may be a problem. You should put at least a month-long break between MDMA uses, three months if possible. By taking it more often than once a month you risk damaging your brain's serotonin system, which is responsible for feelings of love, happiness, etc.
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Well, I've only done it 4 times, two weekends in a row and then 4 weeks after that another 2 weeks in a row.
 
So, what, four times in six weeks? That's enough to put stress on your body, if you feel less in control of your romantic feelings then you should definitely slow down a little. Btw, 1/4 of a gram is about double the dose you should need for one night, 1/8 of a gram is a more common dose, given uncut product.
 
Your feelings on MDMA aren't really reliable because they only present themselves in such a way when on MDMA. Sounds like you just had a bad mental crash and wanted to blame it on something.
 
you like the girl, did mdma with her, she's got a boyfriend..
ofc u gonna punch a few walls, but it aint the end of the world

cheer up, son
 
The fact that you hadn't done MDMA prior is understandable that you would have some sort of episode from 4 times in the first 6 weeks. Only because as stated serotonin take's up to 3 months to restore, although I think it's about 90% of it after 3 weeks and the remaining 10% over the next 2 months. But Ecstasy is called the love drug for a reason, it amplifies emotions, primarily ones of togetherness and love, Serotonin is a chemical that is released by a mother when she gives birth to her child helping them to bond instantly so you can see how it can be very powerful. Having said that, I don't think you have spent enough time with her to justify your actions of punching walls and being so distraught.
Do you think you would normally get so emotional? If not, then your emotions were most certainly amplified but that doesn't mean you can let your frustrations out that way. Speak to her, find out where she's at with everything. And try to break up your MD use a bit more, we may sound preachy but MDMA is a beautiful drug when used responsibly. But heavily corresponds with people developing depression who abuse MDMA. A small percentage but your behaviour after just a few uses does not reflect the responsibility that I encourage with people who take ecstasy.

Best of luck with your lady friend,
and Party safe.
 
Dude, those feelings are terrible mang we all know it.
Happens to me all the time with m and the comedown can send me into a terrible depression.
A depression like that even caused me to lay in my tent for 24 hours at a festie causing me to miss crystal method and dirtyphonics :(
But if I were you I would really try not to dwell on it, it is just the drug, worsening bad thoughts which were already floating around in your brain
 
It's like Cold Mountain, with MDMA. Maybe this is what Mac Dre is referring to. Thizzle Mountain, the story of a confederate raver, who lost it all, then got it back again, then lost it (because he died).
 
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