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Masterbation, how much is too much??

yellodolphin

yellodolphin

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k im a guy and im just wondering what is like a non-excessive level of masterbation. I know people say its harmless but anything overdone will exert the body or harm it. thanks guys.
 
Once while I was tweaked (working on a porn collection) I tore the skin on my cock. In retrospect that was probably too much masturbation.
 
1-3 times a day is perfectly fina and normal.

Your dick will let you know when you have over done it. Mines aches for hours after I cum if i do it too many times.
 
CafeContin said:
Once while I was tweaked (working on a porn collection) I tore the skin on my cock. In retrospect that was probably too much masturbation.
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for me that is one bust. :( speed kills me.


I think you know it's time to stop when one of these two things happen:


1) you try to walk and you fall over

2) you bust one, and nothing at all comes out.
 
You know you're doing it to much when....


... you do it to the exclusion of real human contact.
....you think about it even when you're not doing it.
....you would do it in preference to being with friends...
....you do it even though you know it is physically and emotionally damaging you.


Oh wait, that's for drug addiction. :)
 
if you do it quicklike, i guess you can do it as many times a day as you want. like.. say you do it 5 times a day, each is 5-10 minutes including clean up.. y not?

i personally do it once every 1-3 days, but most of my friends do it 2-5 times per day
 
I mastarbate probably once every three days.. am I weird? I have been only intimate with my hand recently too.....
 
i used to jack off once every 2 days, but then i had no contact with a computer for about 2months and when i got my comp and internet back i started doing it about 5 6 times a day. sometimes i would finish, and like 10mins later i'd be back at it.

i ended up downloading 17gigs of porn in 4days. slowly im getting back to my old habits though.

anyways, i know its too much when after i cum my dick aches and the only way to releive it is to drink alot of water and piss alot. maybe some cum gets stuck in my dick tube and burns it or something and the only way to get it out is to flush out to goo with piss
 
anything more than 3 times a day is too much for me and 3 times is a lot. sometimes i not do it for 3 or 4 days and then it feels more intense when i do. its just like weed is that respect. in fact you could consider drug use a form of masturbation.
 
^^ I agree.

As far as physically unsafe.. you'd have to start going raw or your nuts would have to start aching for extended periods of time.
 
If you feel guilty, that's a bad thing. There's no reason to feel guilty about it (aside from religion) - if you feel guilty about masturbation, it's very likely, almost certain, that it will translate over into your sex life (perhaps quite subtley).

It did for me. I used to feel bad about masturbating, and then I'd have no desire to have sexual relationships with girls for some strange reason. :P

GL
 
once a day is plenty. more than that is abnormal in my opinion. i have done it twice in one day before... but once was in the morning and once was in the afternoon.

sex on the other hand is different. youre allowed to fuck as much as you want in one day. my best so far is 3 times in one night (5 hours) and fuck my bits were sore afterwards.
 
clip14 said:
once a day is plenty. more than that is abnormal in my opinion. i have done it twice in one day before... but once was in the morning and once was in the afternoon.

sex on the other hand is different. youre allowed to fuck as much as you want in one day. my best so far is 3 times in one night (5 hours) and fuck my bits were sore afterwards.
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How is it different in the way that you would suppose that jerking off should be limited?
 
to me, masturbation is more of a release of sexual tension.

sex on the otherhand is fun.

you have a point though. maybe if a person is very sexually frustrated then they may feel the need to masturbate more often. each to their own.

i suppose in society masturbation is quite taboo. you wouldnt brag to your friends about how many times you can jack off in a day, but you would feel okay if not proud telling them how many times youve had sex in a day

social conditioning and societies expectations huh ?
 
Well I would do it about once or twice a week- when I was younger I did it way more, but once you've hd the real thing, I guess the 'need' to wank is reduced. I find it a bit sinister that people are doing it 2-5 times a day- I don't wanna be talking to some due thinking the guys probably just had a wank or contemplating one. I mean, we all get horny but there a time and a place.

Too much masturbation is only harmful if it replaces real contact I gues . . . but even then its not harmful, just kind of ill advised if you wantto have intimicy with someone and not cum after about one minute.

Sex is not just the orgasm- in fact, thats the end, all the stuff before that is th good shit.

Anyway, I'm off for one. :)
 
>>I find it a bit sinister that people are doing it 2-5 times a day- I don't wanna be talking to some due thinking the guys probably just had a wank or contemplating one. I mean, we all get horny but there a time and a place.>>

The time and place arises two to five times a day. ;)

ebola
 
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