Married woman making advances

[T. Calderone]

I think this woman figures you won't do anything about this since you havn't already. Meanwhile, she's getting more brazen and it is sexual harassment, embarrassing you like that with the back massage comment. Now you have witnesses if you want to report it to HR. You shouldn't have to put up with this bullshit or quit, just tell her this isn't sexy, cute or funny and knock it off.

 

[Gloop]

Yes, destroying the sanctity of marriage is an option that you may want to pursue. Go ahead and convert to the Germanic Norse God's while youre at it.

Are you a sensible person? Do you hate your fellow man?

 

[llama112]

you know I think that this would work. however, she will no doubt be confused as to why you aren't a cheater like her. explain to her that while she is great and all, you are in a relationship with someone that you just love so much, and couldn't imagine cheating on her...

It should work, but it could really go either way. I've had sooo many guys hit on me and I'm like "hey! my boyfriend is right here!" and they are like "ahhh your boyfriend doesn't need to know" or whatever. So it definitely isn't a guarantee that it'd work but I still think it's worth a shot. When guys hit on me, it's really 50/50, about half of them are like "okay, I didn't realize that, enjoy your night" (very polite, these guys are awesome) and then others are like "who cares?". So it won't work on everyone but why not give it a try?

She already knows that I'm single, can't fake I have a girlfriend.

I don't think you should give up on this fake-girlfriend thing. There are a couple ways you can do it. Pretend you just got into a relationship recently (last week?). Or pretend that you just don't like to talk about your girlfriend at work (many people don't like to do that actually).

I'm just reading this thinking about if a man was doing this to a woman. I think this counts as sexual harassment.

I agree with this.