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Managing horniness in LDR: To beat off or not to beat off

^that is how some people view relationships. This whole monogamy bullshit is forced upon people because of convention. Both people have to be on the same page for this kind of thing to work out but it's not that uncommon anymore. The act of sexual contact will eventually become separated from love, i don't see how the two are mutually exclusive.
 
One time I went so long without getting off, I literally woke up in the middle of the night busting a nut and had to jump up and clean all of the mess up. lol my girlfriend laughed at me so much when I told her that story.
 
Do you think I wouldn't already be doing that if I was under the impression that she would be "getting banged herself"? I'd hate to be in a relationship with you if that's how your mind works.

Anyway I've found that not watching porn significantly helps.

I think I am probably a little bit more realistic than you are.
 
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